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Escorts - Need Help

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Hammer To The Crotch, Dec 1, 2018.

  1. Hammer To The Crotch

    Hammer To The Crotch Fapstronaut

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    Hi all,

    I need your help.

    I am a PIED sufferer. 4 years ago I cured my pied performing the 90 day challenge. It reinvigorated me.

    Today is day 62 of my most recent effort. You can read my journal for reasons why I'm back.. Nobody has noted my journal. Im not that gutted about it.

    Anyway. I find myself increasingly tpted to try an escort.

    This is crazy. I have spent my adult life jerking off, and I accept that is a reality of life but that the internat has ruined it. But i'm trying to persuade myself to relapse so hard that im foing toto order a prostitute. If that isnt worse than my normal porn addiction, I dont know what is.

    I need you to tell me your experiences. And to tell me why I shouldnt go there. I had issues viewing porn online, I dont want a life of ordering hookers.

    Please advise
     
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  2. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    If you're asking people to convince you why you shouldn't do it, then you already know it's not a good idea. If you're looking for that one story of why you should do it, ask that person how their life is working out for them.
    I don't understand why anyone would put their fucking lives in jeopardy by sleeping with a hooker. So, there's my opinion on it. :)
     
  3. The best advice will be to stop seeking personal strength from others.

    You know it is bad. You don't wanna do it. Still you are trying to lean on others to not make it happen. That's a recipe for disaster. I hate to tell you this... But the truth is that only you can help yourself. Especially when you already understand the situation and it's consequences.
     
  4. Nimareg

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    I thought of doing the same, even knowing the risks but I think it would be to exchange one problem for another
     
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  5. Khufu

    Khufu Fapstronaut

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    trading one addiction for another isnt a wise move, it well drain you financially , what your seeking ,what all men seek is companionship, we well receive it in time
     
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  6. Peiskos

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    I visited up upwards of 20 escorts during the course of my lowest points. When you sit and watch porn and jerk off it feels really demoralizing when you orgasm doesn’t it? Multiply that feeling when you do so with an escort. I remember feeling so dirty, ashamed and pathetic when I used to finish, the walk back to your car and the drive home is even more demoralizing and miserable.

    If you want to experience that go for it, but just know you will 110% regret it when it’s over, if you don’t believe me you’ll see. Looking back now I can’t even believe the risks I took visiting all the escorts I did, risks including contracting an STD. I ran the gauntlet for a good 5 years with that lifestyle and luckily I didn’t get anything after getting checked.
     
  7. ultrafabber

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    I went there. Don't go there.
     
  8. I can reiterate Shark's comments. Nothing good can come of it. I've been doen that path and is an escaltion in behaviour from PMO to know possible hookers. I believe it would be a massive error in judgement. Get back to basics and put that shit to rest. It is a horrible, expensive and really lonrly road to go doen. Yo u are looking for comfort in something that is not comforting at all. It will only serve to strip whatever sense of self worth you have left. Been there man. Don't do it.
     
  9. Joe92

    Joe92 Fapstronaut

    +1
     
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