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Erectile Dysfunction: what happened after 40 days

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Gamekeeper89, Jun 14, 2017.

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  1. Gamekeeper89

    Gamekeeper89 Fapstronaut

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    This is from a journal post, but I thought it might be useful and encouraging to post it in the sexual dysfunction area too. *Sexual content*.

    I mentioned 'J' in my last journal post. A couple of weeks ago J came around to my place, we cooked and drank wine together and - although we didn't have full sex with each other - he did oral on me and I O-ed for the first time since starting my NoFap journey. Well, since then J and I have seen quite a bit of each other. We've been to bars, parks and pubs around London - he is sweet and kind and handsome, and he seems to really like me. The down side is he's going back to university at the end of the summer and we have both decided that neither of us really want to try a long distance relationship - so I suppose it's just a summer thing. But I'm enjoying it.

    Due to both of our living situations we have only spent the night together twice. The second time was on Monday night. He came round quite late with some food and we chatted and kissed for a while, then showered and got into bed. I'll admit it - I was pretty nervous. I knew that tonight was the night we were meant to go all the way, and we were both expecting me to be top. As I said in my first ever journal post, part of my reason for giving up porn and masturbation was ED (erectile dysfunction). For the last year and a half (approx.), most of the times I have tried to be top I haven't been able to maintain an erection, or I have lost it just as I put the condom on. I had several theories as to why this might be (nerves, death grip syndrome, a depletion in sexual confidence, blood flow problems) but wasn't sure of any of them. What if, after abstaining from M-ing for 40 days, I still wasn't hard enough? What would I do? What would I say? As he came out of the shower and got into bed, my mind was racing. Racing with doubt.

    But then there was J's body - his black skin gleaming in the soft light; his soft, rolling kisses; his beautiful face; and when I reached for the condom, when I put it on, when I entered him - I was hard. As hard as I've ever been before.

    J didn't realise my relief, he has no idea. But relief there was. 40 days without porn and masturbation seems to have worked. I'm so thankful I decided to take action, to exert will power and see this happen. Thank-you NoFap.
     
    Last edited: Jun 14, 2017
  2. franco216

    franco216 Fapstronaut

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    Waiting for this day to come! Thanks for sharing.
     
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  3. Nucleus

    Nucleus Fapstronaut

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    Thats great news mate. A good hard boner is something I haven't seen arise from my pants for a while. I hope to tell the same good news in a months time.
     
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