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Embarce Loneliness

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Flossy Carter, Mar 21, 2017.

  1. Flossy Carter

    Flossy Carter Fapstronaut

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    This might seem counter intuitive but being lonely will help you with your nofap journey.
    This is probably my 7th time rebooting and everytime i hit the first week mark, i get dark thoughts and hate every human being I see (including my parents).

    I tried to fight it by simply relapsing everytime and it helped tremendously but that's not the reason why we're doing nofap, right?

    Just sleep it off and hopefully it'll go away one day (it eventually will).
     
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  2. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

    HappyDaysAreHereAgain Fapstronaut

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    Loneliness can help and complicate.
    Loneliness is no goal, but it can help motivate us towards a better life. If it motivates you into NoFap, use it, but use NoFap, and especially the flatline time to get social without sex. Rarely do we get an opportunity at 18 to be with girls and not think about sex, but in flatline that is reality. We can use flatline time to make female friends and acquaintances. It is a great opportunity to grow socially, like we were little presexual kids again, just having fun together. Enjoy.
     
  3. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    Keep those teeth clean!
     
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  4. Flossy Carter

    Flossy Carter Fapstronaut

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    You always put a smile on my face :)
     
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  5. Flossy Carter

    Flossy Carter Fapstronaut

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    Flatline already depletes any confidence i had before.
    "Doing something scary" would probably give me a heart attack.
    But after this flatline, my confidence should be adequate to try anything, hopefully.
     
  6. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    Finally - something we can agree on!
     

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