Edging

When a male masturbates, they tend to edge for mini orgasms when they get close to Cumming, and then stop before they release semen.

 

They just like getting to third base.

 

It's like teasing yourself. It prolongs the act.

 

In my case, edging would intensify and extend the high.

With straight masturbation, there would be a build up and orgasm - then it would be over. The total act from start to finish might take perhaps fifteen minutes. With edging, there would be a build up, then back off, then another build up, etc... With practice - and I had lots of practice - I became able to go to the very edge of orgasm, get a hit almost as delicious, over and over again. This could be sustained for a duration that - during the worst of my addiction - lasted for hours (eleven at the longest!).

At the same time all the above was going on, I became progressively more detached from reality. The longer the edge, the further I dropped down the rabbit hole. Because much of my motivation for pmo was escape, this developed its own tantalizing quality. And the further I dropped, the nastier my taste in fantasy, porn, and chat became - which carried it's own thrill.

All of this became so intense that, during the worst of things, I would probably have reversed your question, Sad Girl: Why would someone ejaculate and not edge?

 

In a healthy relationship there is some foreplay. That leads to sexual communion.
In the wicked and satanic world of porn, there is edging. That leads to relapse.

 

Ejaculating is just a jizz, we masturbate because of O(I know they usually come together, but you can learn how to O without ejaculating)....and edging is almost the same as O.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_control#In_masturbation

No! https://yourbrainonporn.com/what-if-i-use-porn-without-orgasm

 

People fool themselves into thinking edging isn't a relapse. It feels like cheating to them, without the guilt/consequences of a full relapse. In reality, it's actually worse than a relapse.

 

Do you eat dessert first?

Children under five find delayed gratification difficult. They cannot ponder how satisfying eating the chocolate will be, they just have to eat it now. As adults we can put the chocolate to one side and spend time imagining how gorgeous it is going to taste. Finally when we pop it in our mouths it is amazing.

The porn fuelled build up to ejaculation is immersively enjoyable, why not make it last?

 

Drat, I should have read your original question first. Sorry, my last ‘answer’ does not answer you at all and in fact I am with you on this, it makes no sense to me either!

 

From an addicted perspective - from my own addicted perspective - a multi-edge session that ends with ejaculation was way better than a single orgasm without any edging.

 

I think she meant about how it feels.