Earrings on Males

Earrings suck! What is this fascination of studding metal into people's skin or hanging bits of metal from earlobes etc?
It's like when you see someone with a nose or lip ring. OMG it looks like they have been tethered to a fence or a post!

Has your girlfriend got a metal fetish or something? What is wrong with you as you are? Absolutely nothing I would bet.

 

They look so silly on men.
I personally do think they look gay.
Plus in a fight it's one more thing that can be used to damage you.
Nobody wants half a ear ripped off.

 

Do you want to wear them? That's the only thing that matters. It's not your gf's decision.

I pretty much agree with @IGY I don't get why anyone would shove metal through their face. This is one of the trends people a 100 years in the future will think, what the fuck did they do?

I've seen many beautiful girls who completely fucked up their looks because they have to wear metal rings through their face. But that's just my opinion.

 

Seriously tho, when I see a man with earrings I think of either gay, rocker guy, metrosexual or an artist. None of those things I associate with manliness. I assume most people would perceive a guy with earrings the same. So it depends what kind of vibes you want to send out. Also depends what kind of person you already are. There are some men that are so manly that they define what they wear, not other way around. It's not most of the people tho.

 

Did not said that they all are effeminate. I said I associate them with it.

 

I once tried earrings. Holy shit, they were so uncomfortable after a week. Never again.

And further more, I don't how people get to wear 'em for a living from the past thousands of years 'till today. As much as seeing people with them doesn't bother me, still, I don't know how they feel comfortable with 'em. But to each it's own.. I guess.

 

Risk it for a biscuit.

 

That's what my 12-year old self thought too, but I'm scarred for life bro. Some wounds don't heal. (Literally, not talking about emotional scars)

 

She's marking her man. It's a common tactic employed by women with jealousy issues.

 

An ear stud is the equivalent to a leash

 

OK, Nick. Go back to your wood (actual wood).

 

#RMSHASSPOKEN

 

Earrings are very feminine, OP. I don't think you should get them.

 

Sunshadow... c'mon man. Ear rings are for girls. I don't think I need to labour this point. Don't allow your gf to turn you into a metrosexual.

 

Not a fan of earrings on men or tattoos (on either sex), for that matter.
I also don't care much for nose studs on women (or pierced tongues, nipples, or whatever else people suddenly decide is hip).

 

I know it has been a long time since the original post, dunno what your decision was ... dunno if you are still in that situation.

Either way, don't let your girlfriend change your mind on who you want to be. I personally like piercings ( don't have any ), but if you don't, DON'T GET THEM ! If you girlfriend wants you with them but you don't, DON'T GET THEM !

I see no correlation between the two. If i see a guy with earrings ... it's just a person with some metal in his body. Saying a guy is "gay" just because he has earrings is ignorant and stupid, but let's face it: Some people think like this, so have this in mind when making your decision.

Earrings were made by an unknown alien civilization that keep the secrets to the origin of the world

Just some fashion items. That's it ( in my opinion ).

So yeah: get them if you want to, don't get them if you don't want to, it doesn't make you gay, IN FACT, it would make you "more alpha", because you have the courage to wear something that is "feminine looking".

 

I have both my ears pierced and I wear black studs. Honestly, it depends on what kind of impression you're tryna give. It gives you more of a pretty boy/player type of look. I used to wear them daily through high school but now it's only if I'm going out to somewhere I need to look good for. I guess it's more attractive to girls since it give's the bad boy look. But don't do anything that YOU don't wanna do. When you start doing things to impress girls thats when you lose your masculinity and seem less of an alpha, so do what YOU wanna do, fuck what she thinks