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Don't Discount Any Victory or Progress

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Gvn2Fly, Apr 8, 2019.

  1. Gvn2Fly

    Gvn2Fly Fapstronaut

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    Hello all,

    I'm relatively new on my journey. Tried last year and gave up after feeling so bad about continuously relapsing and basically just continued PMO for another year until I once again decided enough is enough. I had accountability partners that stopped responding and posting - I can only assume they gave up as well. I see a lot of posts on here about people feeling horrible for relapsing.

    Here's my advice when you feel like giving up - any progress is a victory and don't discount it! If I used to go 4 hours PMO every day going 4 days and then relapsing, and then going 1 day without and then relapsing, 7 days and then relapsing, and now at 2 days again and feeling great without urges..all this isn't great and not where I want to be at but it's an improvement! I can beat myself up over the relapses or I can say..Hey I'm going from daily PMO to once a week - that's an improvement! But I can do better and continue to fight this. Just need to take it one victory at a time!

    "I've got this light
    And the will to show
    I will always be better than before"
     

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