Does Watching your personal porn material count as well?

Porn is porn. If you're trying to beat a porn addiction, you're going to have to adopt a zero-tolerance approach. It's not easy for sure, but as long as you have that stash you'll always be tempted to go back to it. It's also dangerous to keep it, because you're setting a precedent for 'good' porn and 'bad' porn. Sooner or later, you'll start justifying more and more 'good' porn and you'll find it extremely difficult to reboot. You even said it yourself, you can't control yourself when you view it, so why torture yourself with it?

 

It's really up to you. I would totallly delete the ones with your ex girlfriends but it your current one likes to watch then you might keep it only for when you have sex, but that's potentially dangerous.

 

I agree with what's been said ... the porn you shot with your ex needs to be deleted as soon as possible. You're no longer in a relationship with her, so you have no right to keep those images unless you have her direct permission (and even then, if you're trying to quit porn, you're just making relapses inevitable).

I had a partner where we shared hundreds of pics and videos with eachother. But I've deleted all of them. Yes, it was really hard. Yes, I kicked myself the next day and wished I had them all back. But it was the right thing to do.

As far as your current girlfriend goes--I think making it very hard to view is a good first step. But if you start finding yourself going to the attic every day to take a peek, you need to get rid of it.

 

This is one of kind Question, WOW!, I hope it doesn't mean that you brag about it

 

Ask yourself this question:
What would you rather do? Having real sex with your girlfriend or watching yourself having sex with your girlfriend and masturbating to it?
I think you know the answer my friend.
But thanks for asking that question. I also have some images of my girlfriend and me having sex. And although I never look at them, thinking about your question made me realize that it would be better to delete them.