Does this count as edging?

Hey guys,

There is a girl(we were kind of kind of dating). Anyways sometimes we sext or she calls me to have a dirty talk to do it. Anyways after nofap/no PMO i do not do it when i sext or talk with her(even though i tell her and act like i do it so it isn't awkward) It's not that i don't wanna do it but we didn't have sex for real and for me this dirty stuff feels a little bit pornish. To be honest i feel the neurocognitive effects of nofap, i feel way more energetic and wired mentally. And touching myself/wanking feels kind of weird man. You know i kind of see myself from an other persons eye if i can put it that way. Does getting hard, involuntary precum count as edging? Just sexting doesn't get me hard as porn used to get it hard though. Especially when i feel conflicted about wanking. I am glad i can influence myself towards my goals
Even if this doesn't count, i still dont wanna do it because you jerk off to orgasm and ejaculate. Not doing it by myself makes me convince her more to meet for real It felt like an orgasm without MO while talking to her though. Weird feeling of relaxation not like orgasm but serenity like feeling weird. I am still a virgin though maybe this changes things.

So my question is that would you consider that involuntary precum edging?I dont wanna consider that serenity feeling edging because i never felt like that in years of experience during PMO And did you guys also
feel conflicted and wrong about PMO after battling with your urges? It feels like if i put it in a metaphor, lets say PMO is child thing yet you are an adult secretly playing with that toy(pun intended) no adult would wanna hang out with you let alone considering to compete in an adults world with a mind and limits of a child mindscope.

After couple relapses and resisting against urges and as the art of war puts it in an elegant way i managed to learn to avoid the urges before you need to resist. And i didn't even wanna touch myself while talking with her, old me would be in a battle between "no i shouldnt no i shouldnt, i dont wanna relapse, i cant but i cant resist i want to besides it wouldnt count blah blah"
I didn't know i was that powerful and disciplined when i want to be. Sorry some of these should be in journal i guess but i just wanted to write and share talk with you guys!

Thanks for this great community, and guys keep going it is really worth it!