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Does Penis Size Matter?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by FindingAName, Jun 26, 2017.

  1. joarev85

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    Very, very, very.......very...very, very.....intelligent spoken. Mine is small. And when erected...not big...
     
  2. Potato93

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    You said everything that the OP needed to read and understand.
    I dont think dick size matters as well, it all depends on your partner.
    I'd say having sex with chicks that prefer big penises (+5inches) above all, isnt a sign of a long term partner.
     
  3. SuperFan

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    I'm a pretty well endowed guy myself ... and when I was fully in my addiction, I acted out with women who were definitely full-on 'size queens.' But generally speaking, "Does size matter" is the wrong question. The right question is "Does size matter to my partner?" Women are individuals, and they'll have different preferences.

    If you're smaller than average, a size queen isn't going to be the right woman for you. But for every man, there is some wonderful woman out there who will be ecstatic about what's in your pants. You just have to be patient and work on yourself while God orchestrates things to reveal her to you.

    I will say this ... almost universally, women I've talked to almost always prefer girth/thickness over length. There is a weird preoccupation in male culture about length for some reason, but it's not an obsession shared by most women.

    Whenever I saw porn that featured some guy with a 12" package, I couldn't help but notice that he could only use half of it. If he was getting a BJ, it was only the first few inches. It just looked tremendously unsatisfying.

    Also ... I spent a good part of my 20's and early 30's putting a huge chunk of my self-worth in my body and my endowment. That is a sure path to depression and discontent, because there will always be someone hotter or more hung than you. Your value doesn't come from your size. It comes from the fact that you're a unique man created by God who will never be duplicated. You are a treasure to someone, and one of the great mysteries of life is how to go about finding them.
     
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  4. SuperFan

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    Man ... that was a nugget of wisdom that I've always known, but it was good to be reminded of in such a concise, straightforward way.
     
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  5. Runtilmylegsdropoff

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    Wow, bunch of Dirk Digglars on here.
     
  6. Potato93

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    Please, define size queens. Im aware of some woman that credit themselves with this title, but I really dont understand how relevant such preference for big dicks actually impacts in a long term relationship.

    That's really materialistic to be fair, if my gf came to me one day and said she would dump me because she became a size queen I'd totally reconsider my life choices... :confused:

    There are people that value sex more than partnership in a relationship (long term ones even), and I respect that. But to be honest, its not my type nor even I see as a good amount of self worth or investment to set on.
     
  7. Runtilmylegsdropoff

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  8. SuperFan

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    A size queen is a woman who needs a more well-endowed man in order to enjoy sex. And it's nothing to shake your head at. Just like you, and just like me, every individual woman reserves the right to have her own particular preferences. Some women just love a big dick ... that's life. For many others, size is far less important than technique, and size and technique are usually far less important than personality. Anyone can learn technique.

    How it impacts a long-term relationship? Well, it won't, as long as you have a mutual understanding of each other's interests early on. Chances are you won't commit to a long-term relationship with someone who you don't have sexual chemistry with, so I don't see why it would become a problem.

    But if a woman puts a high priority on sexual fulfillment in her relationship, and if she discovers that she needs something bigger to satisfy her, it's not fair to judge her for being picky about who she commits to or who she sleeps with. That's her right. We all have superficial things we're attracted to.
     
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  9. Speaking as a girl, no it doesn't matter. Personally I find big ones intimidating. Plus a girl can have incredible orgasms without penetration. It's true, sex is mostly in the mind. I'm sure some women might disagree, but trust me, there will be plenty out there that don't care.
     
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  10. Atlanticus

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    you're 16, how old is your brother?
     
  11. Atlanticus

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    if your brother is older that should tell you something (if he's a bit of a D, too)! secondly, how much insertive sex have you had... it makes a difference. also, let's talk about your confidence (in general) _after_ you have rebooted, okay? what will be on that quiz? your _inner reasons_ for being confident!
     
  12. xXkiller42

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    Not really, As long as you're happy with your partner and she's happy with you. If she leaves you over that than she wasn't really a good girlfriend and you can find better as of someone loving you no matter what size of your penis..
     
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  13. ConstraintsTheory

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    look man ill give it to you straight. in the words of my 16 year old nephew it isn't about how far the hook goes its how the worm wiggles. haha

    in all seriousness though don't worry about your junk size man. ill be honest I was self conscious about my size and also being uncut I think a lot of this stems from watching too much porn. then I just got to a point where I was like. whelp I have what I have so I gotta make it work. honestly I've never had complaints about the size some women were pleasantly surprised and were like goddamn! so what I'm trying to say is this. don't obsess over how big or small it is be comfortable with what you have. I myself have even made jokes and about how its a baby carrot even if it wasn't true. by they way you get more laughs and often times shocks people because everyone always goes on about how big it is and second in my experience girls are curious to find out if its true or not. setting low expectation into their minds to get them curious? haha

    overall just get out of your head about it. embrace what you have and make it work for you trust me everything will work out just fine that's my advice
     
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