Such an awkward question but something that is gnawing at me... I am trying to do a 90-day reboot for PIED (Delayed Ejaculation), which I likely developed from PMO addiction and death grip. But does a handjob from another partner count as masturbating? So far I've been on hard mode but curious what everyone thinks about utilizing someone else's hand to get off.
Hi @xvtc ctvx ! Most folks say that hard mode is the fastest route to healing from PIED, DE and other PMO-related problems. What effects MO by another's help will have on your journey is simply put, unknown and un-knowable. Everybody is different. For folks that have been dealing with PMO and its ill effects for some time, a 90 day hard mode reboot may not even be long enough; healing may take longer. Doing something other than hard mode will work, but may take even longer than if true hard-mode. One thing to be aware of - if you aren't already - is the "chaser effect" that can happen after O by whatever means. There are a lot of posts about chaser effect available on this site (noFAP) so just search and read to learn about it. Knowing that the "chaser effect" may occur after an O can help you avoid resets and relapses. One day at a time is how we all succeed.
When a girl touch my meat and do the thing, i cant eyaculate. If i eyaculated trought a womans hand i will count as a victory. So, to me the answer is no. It count as sex.