1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

Didn't masturbate for more than an year

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Sibel raj, Jul 14, 2017.

  1. Sibel raj

    Sibel raj New Fapstronaut

    3
    4
    3
    I am a 23 year old male. I discovered fapping at the age of 15.. for about3-4 years after discovering it, I enjoyed it like crazy but after an year, I felt horribly guilty. I watched porn only once or twice and I felt too ashamed. Then I joined college and wanted to socialize. So I wanted to give up masturbation, and looking at hot pictures. This improved a lot of things and I even started to spend a lot of time with girls. They used to hug me more often. Sometimes I would loose a bit of control but then I controlled the urge to shag. Then eventually I shagged very less. Like every 3 months and then 6 months. But after I broke up with my girlfriend I was depressed and shagged and watched all hot stuff last year in the Feb. That was the last time I shagged. After that I watched hot stuff a couple of times but never went up till orgasm. So after an year, this year during March a lot bad things happened and I gave up again. Now it's been 3 months since I didn't shag, but I feel like giving up already because things are bad and the urge is so high. What do I do? Help. What should I do when I feel so damn horny and my pants are wet just like that. Is it normal to never masturbate because that is my goal. I want to never mastubate. Do all successful people became successful because they resisted the urge to shag and spared themselves for sex?
     
  2. Its confusing that you use word shag cause this word is ussualy used for sex not fapping.

    I think successful people becomes successful because they concentrate their energy. Use all their spare time and means to achieve dreams. Cause they have goals. So if you have a goal then stick with it. Orgasm is temporary. Love is eternal.

    These are two topics that helped me the most -
    This helps understand how brain works and understanding makes easier not to fap
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/milestone-365-days-no-pmo-monk-mode.104851/

    And this is general information and mindset of not fapping.
    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/in-case-you-didnt-know.84619/
     
    Asgardian36, Powerous and Eauchiche like this.
  3. Eauchiche

    Eauchiche Fapstronaut

    51
    33
    18
    Until March, I had not engaged in ANY sexual expression for two years, not even a wet dream. Of course, I am in my late fifties, so this could be a factor.
    I have isolated the triggers than caused the latest round of "fapping", and am trying to deal with the triggers in a more constructive, healthy fashion.
     
  4. Powerous

    Powerous Fapstronaut

    Good luck on your journey brother, PMO addiction is one of the hardest if not the hardest addictions out there, it has even been linked to heroine and cocaine addiction.
    But let me tell you that once you overcome this addiction and go say 30,60,90, up to 1 year days PMO free, you will get a shit load of benefits. So much energy within your body, you will feel amazing. And yes a lot of famous successful people in the past practiced ''NoFap'' in other words they did not masturbate/watch porn ever, because they knew that releasing sperm out of there body dramatically reduces their life force energy. For example Muhammad Ali and Arnold Schwarzenegger, Steve Jobs - all these men practiced sexual transmutation, storing their sexual energy (sperm) within their body instead of releasing it.

    Think about it for a sec, 1 ejaculation.. you waste billions and billions of sperm cells, and it only takes 1 just 1 sperm cell to create a HUMAN LIFE. That's how powerful this energy is, PMO addicts that constantly release this vital energy become depressed, fatigued, and unmotivated there is really no surprise, I myself included.
    Keep going strong on your journey, we are all here to support you.
     
  5. Yes, preservation gives life. Failing to do so causes immense and unimaginable suffering.
     
    Powerous likes this.
  6. halpern

    halpern New Fapstronaut

    2
    1
    3
    Just keep going, if you did it for a year and other longer periods of time you can do it again. Just find a girlfriend soon and remember vaginal sex where you cum inside her is only good sex, other things are wasting seed. But be aware that you don't indulge in sex too much because you lose your life energy.
     
    Powerous likes this.

Share This Page