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Depression

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Nick:3, Aug 20, 2019.

  1. Nick:3

    Nick:3 Fapstronaut

    Hi guys

    Okay so i come from a well off family, had a private school high school education, at uni whicu my parents are paying for, born and raised in england, at uni there too.

    Basically im meant to go on to the third year of my course, which is art based, and ive loved art most of my life. Last year however my passio dwindled and it was a huge effort to just get outta bed to go and do the work. I dont wanna do it anymore and everything else feels like a hastle. I feel ive been a spoilt kid all my life and now i just dont wanna do anything cos it all feels hard and shit cos i feel so depressed nothing feels enjoyable anymore. Idk what to do, should i work abroad? Try for last year? I mean the year before i got so pissed off i kicked 2 holes in the wall (before could never even imagine myself doing that), i also find it hard to socialise and really fit in. Idk i feel i need help cos life isnt worth living and ive been dreading it for a long time. Also the uni councellor didnt help, and any other councellor will cost a load of cash so my parents cba for that.
     
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  2. Depression can be serious. I understand your situation. I wish you could go and work on a farm for a month using your hands and building fences in the sunshine. You would probably feel a lot better. Modern life can get us down. You're not asking about God, so I won't go there but try to focus on what's important to you even if those things change from time to time.
     
  3. There is a way out. There are some problems within you that wants to be solved. When I was depressed doing anything was like lifting twice my own body weight... Some people think they need motivation but the truth is they are filling something up that leaks out for some reason. Attitude is something that stays. Before I rebuilt my attitude I was constantly refilling my motivation with videos, music, speeches etc. but now there is no thought like "come on get up, you need to do this and that, you got no time for fun..."
     
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