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Deliberately searched and looked at some images?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by skaterdrew, May 3, 2019.

  1. skaterdrew

    skaterdrew Fapstronaut

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    I deliberately searched and looked at some images of this girl I know on social media. But I then later masturbated imagining I was having sex with this girl.

    Can't live in a world where you literally can't even look at a social media image. Is this literally what is expected? If there is images of an attractive looking girl on social media then you can't look at them? Am I as well deleting every single friend who is a girl off my social media? Is this what is expected?
     
  2. Bombadil

    Bombadil Fapstronaut

    I suppose it depends on what you expect of yourself. Think of food as analogy, is it fair that if I eat far too much for too long I become diabetic and then can't ever eat cake again without doing myself harm? We've allowed ourselves to become addicted and screwed up our brain chemistry. There are some consequences from that, one of which is that it might be a good idea to give up some activities that are fine for others to do because they don't have the same history.

    That's not to say you can't ever go on facebook again, but the step between masturbating because you remember a pretty girl you saw on a screen and masturbating to porn seems quite small IMO
     
  3. skaterdrew

    skaterdrew Fapstronaut

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    How damaging is it that I deliberately searched and looked at a few images of a girl on social media, and then later masturbated imaging I was having sex with that girl?
     
  4. While it's not a great thing, I don't think what you did was so bad. Give yourself a bit of time to think and assess why you did that. Be patient with yourself, but do your best to avoid masturbating to any photos. You obviously want to do better, and that is a good place to begin.
     

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