Death Grip - I ejaculate Urine and more (Condom usage)

Well, Since last few years, I have either used tight fleshlights OR death grip (dry) while masturbating. The thing now is, I ejaculate urine along with almost no semen. I am 100% sure its urine because i take Multi Vitamins and everytime I pee few hours after taking a multi vitamin, my urine is extreme yellow in color because body is getting rid of extra vitamins it doesnt need etc. And my ejaculation is same as urine color, based on time of the day etc.

BUT, if I use a condom I ejaculate semen (that thick white fluid). This is so funny. It probably has either to do with using death grip, tight fleshlights, dry humping on bed for few years etc but how come putting on a condom helps getting the semen out ?

Has it to do with my technique, blood flow, weak muscles ?

I am getting married in 3 months and I am damn stressed out because of this.

I have had a long history of dry humping, tight fleshlights, death grip etc.

Am I making sense to anybody ? Whats the cure ?

 

I actually talked to her yesterday about postponing our marriage for at least 6-8months stating work-related issues. She was kind of okay with that. We are not in a hurry. But it will take me at least a few weeks to let her know of all this.

I never knew death grip was even a thing. I read an article on Lifehacker today and then found about it and then found this site.

My concern right now is - How to get started in curing myself? Should I start M with soft hands or try something else ?

 

Giving up PMO will cure all of this?

You are right. But, I need some time to digest all this myself and prepare myself to tell her everything.

I still can't accept the fact that having a condom on and I can ejaculate semen and without it, I ejaculate urine. I mean, whats the physical or scientific reason behind this?

 

I also agree. And this is what I am going to do. I kind of believe, this can be cured without medication.

 

For me, its not about the cost. I believe, doctors here dont know much about PMO, death grip, prone and similar stuff and consequences of these habits. Thats my only reason to avoid doctors for the time being. I also see no harm in going PMO free for few weeks/months and see how things go.

I believe my muscles are weak, along with my erections. I have to try too hard to maintain an erection and achieve an orgasm and when I force myself (and kind of give myself a jerk) to keep an erection, I can feel some urine coming into my urethera (if thats the right word) which is ejaculated when I orgasm. Also, when I am rock hard (throughout) and ejaculate, then no urine comes out. Hope I am making sense. And guess no doctor here will understand this probably. And may be, just may be, a condom and the lubrication it brings helps with the blood flow and thus no urine comes out. This is all a guess though, but thats all I can come up with. Probably makes sense.

Exactly.!

 

I was reading more on Death Grip and this is what I read on Quora -

"The "Death Grip"
Other boys discover that they can grip the shaft tightly and slide the skin on the penis, including the foreskin if present, up and down. The stimulation comes from the moving waves of pressure as blood inside the penis is pumped into and out of the glans. There may also be some friction as the foreskin slides over the glans."

I am uncircumcised and this is what I used to do. Using the foreskin up/down, with death grip.

But, if I use a condom, the foreskin stays back. And this is the right way of doing it.

This could probably be the reason that if I use a condom (means do it right), I ejaculate semen, else I ejaculate urine ??

 

@GhostWriter Your Views on the above post, please ?

 

No worries.

Anyways, I have tested in the last few days. Every time, I use a condom and ejaculate, I ejaculate semen.

The solution for me is - I should never use the foreskin/death grip and do it dry.

I feel confident now to tell her, most probably this Wednesday/Thursday when we meet, that I am having issues because of deathgrip, which hopefully will be solved soon. I don't find this a big problem, now that its kind of diagnosed.