Dealing with Autogynephilia?!

hello, to many responses maybe you already got what you wanted. I didn't know this was a thing but after looking it up I realized I do have the same condition! It used to be my ultimate fantasy. I realized now that it is slowly fading away thanks to the fact that I quit PMO and started taking better care of my body, I find now that I love my masculine body and genitals (to the point of narcissism but that's better than wanting to be a chick to get fucked), so I would recommend just that, work on your body and yourself, quit porn and you will see how those feelings slowly fade! good luck!

 

Hi, I have this same problem. Since I’ve hit puberty I’ve had autogynephelia along with be attracted to women. I am 20 now and have a girlfriend who I really love but sometimes we have problems during sex where I lose erectile disfunction. I am scared that my AGP fetish might be causing my “failures” during sex. Although I have often gone a lot of months without being turned on by AGP, there is always something that makes it come back. How have you found giving up on it? What do you do when you feel it coming back?

 

I've been dealing with this the majority of my life. So far I have not found anything to truly suppress it. I can usually force it to go away for a while, but I've found trying to suppress it just makes it come back a lot stronger later. Probably the best thing you can do is moderation. That old saying of "never too much of a good thing" is pretty accurate for mental health. I just try to accept that those thoughts / behaviors are part of me and I just have to manage them as best as I can and try not to let them influence my day to day activities.

 

I have it too, well, developed it. I just know it's because of porn in my case. Porn really is a learning process and sooner or later you'll be so desensitized to seeing women in porn yet so turned on by the actions the female porn star is performing, that combined with how godly male genitals are portrayed in porn (blowjobs every single time), that it becomes a kind of monkey sees monkey does scenario from which there's no real escape because of the novelty and fetish involved, other than to abstain from porn for a very, very, very long time.
So I would say desensitization to seeing women in porn + novelty (not having done what women do in porn) is what's causing it. The weird thing is that I used to only get it from seeing straight porn. For some weird, twisted in the head messed up reason I'd only like to replicate a blowjob when I'd see straight porn, never gay porn, and I'm pretty sure it's the brain not being able to handle porn anymore, that it just becomes a kind of defense mechanism. So in essence you learn that gay acts are fun simply by masturbating to visual cues that involve sex with other males. So self arousal combined with seeing other men have sex on screen = totally can start working against you in the long run. It's become such a problem for me that I actually started to want to act on those desires, that it took an actual homosexual encounter to realize I'm not gay. As of today I'm still having those fantasies when I think back to porn and the guys I'd consider more manly than myself. But it's all just a scam. For heaven's sakes, please quit porn and masturbation if you find yourself in the same boat because it's not going to get better if you keep fantasizing about it.