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DE (Delayed Ejaculation): Your experiences/advice/comments (Female opinions are very welcome)

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by XPiRED, Mar 15, 2016.

  1. Knight Solaire

    Knight Solaire Fapstronaut

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    Since starting Nofap I have become 10x as sensitive to normal sex and it is wonderful. Don't beleive the hype that men boast about "lasting for hours. It is a joke! Mature women love to make their man O. It is wonderful I tell you :D
     
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  2. Knight Solaire

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    Don't touch yourself for at least 5-9 months and if it is because of PMO or MO, you will see huge results. I promise my good sir
     
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  3. Rav70

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    I want to add when I was first discovering sex at 18 I had marathon sex and thought hey this is nice. Even with a p so sore and swollen the next day I really had no clue what it was like to be a good lover or have a good lover. But as you get older, wiser and get a job, family and a house to take care of you learn it's true LESS is MORE. Quality over quantity.
     
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  4. rexbanner

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    A long road ahead then, but one certainly worth travelling! Nice to hear from others who have reaped the rewards :)
     
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  5. XPiRED

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    I think the issue is more about her feeling bad for not being able to make me O or that she thinks I don't find her attractive.
     
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  6. XPiRED

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    Definitely a self-fulfilling prophecy. Couldn't be more true.
     
  7. XPiRED

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    Hahahahahaha. No idea lol.
     
  8. XPiRED

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    Yeah, I agree. It can get tiresome and painful for her too.
     
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  9. XPiRED

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    I think it is very similar for me. Maybe with some anxiety thrown in.
    That sounds pretty cool to me. It's not perfect but it's a form of support I guess.
     
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  10. XPiRED

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    I did already notice results after my first streak of 12 days. I MO'd without P and using a soft grip with my left hand. Didn't have to fantasize about P. It was pretty quick too. I don't wanna have to abstain for 2 weeks everytime I am going to have sex though. So hopefully after more time (and practice ;)) it will be like that everytime and everyday.
     
  11. XPiRED

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    Update: I had sex on Friday night. Was able to O pretty easily from PIV. So DE seems to be cured!!! :)
    OMG such a relief. So hopefully now this can carry on. I just hope it is possible without having to abstain for 76 days. Hopefully I can O easily twice in 1 night. Hopefully it can also happen as easily in different positions and not just missionary. It would also be nice if it could happen with oral and M from her too. And hopefully with condoms.
    So NoFap works!
     
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  12. Rav70

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    That's awesome! Stay off porn and don't MO! Save that lovin for a partner and I'm sure you can.
    It's working?!! Yes!
     
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  13. XPiRED

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    Thanks @Rav70 :)
     
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  14. RedEd101

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    It's definitely not a blessing. I find it's very frustrating for both parties. Would much rather O in minutes. The girl would feel better about herself too...
     
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  15. RedEd101

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    Hey. How long have you been doing nofap? Do you find it easy to O during PIV now?
     
  16. Knight Solaire

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    I've been doing Nofap and for more than a year now. Yes, it is extremely easy to O whenever I want now :D
     
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  17. RedEd101

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    Hey man, thanks for the reply. Have you made any posts about your story? I'd be interested to read.
     
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  18. Knight Solaire

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    The "Preposterous" links in my signature are my journals. You can see my evolution through them. It is crazy how different of a person I am. Also, check out Heirs of the Sun if you get the chance. That is where all of my knowledge and experience had gone into ;)

    It makes me happy you are interested!
     
  19. RedEd101

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    I love success stories. Gives me hope! Will have a read. :)
     
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  20. zingaro

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    I had DE before. The solution is very simple. Stop porn & masturbation. You probably have a dead grip. When stopping masturbation you will feel a lot more again. I agree with Chef, better DE sometimes than an orgasm after 2 minutes of sex.
    What i sometimes do, is when i experience DE, me and a girl masturbate together,on the end, and it does do the trick…
     
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