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Day 61 Hardmode ,i need your opinions

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Mean Machine, Oct 23, 2015.

  1. Mean Machine

    Mean Machine Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, today was day 61st of my nofap hardmode journey. 2/3 of my challenge is complete and i hope to get to at least 90 days. I was a hardcore addict for more than 10 years and suffered from a host of porn induced problems, i thought it would never end but i decided to give it up one day and here i am. Just wanted to know whether one night stands or sex with girls you're acquainted with would harm my progress? So far i have had three chances of hooking up with girls but ive avoided them so far. What are your opinions?
     
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  2. pedro0795

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    Man, i think that sex wih women is normal. What is not normal is jacking off to porn. If were i'd go for it. Wait for more opinions...
     
  3. Dir3ctX

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    Hey im in same situation as you... Exactly... And had serval opportunities and skipped them. Just got from a date where i told the girl im not going to fuck her beacuse i do 90days... Of courss gave other readons why lol... Anyway im temoted as hell but after a decade of fapping and bad interactions beacuse of it. Lets wait more month and then go for it... Do you edge? Get hard from movies facebook thougtgs woman u keep in touch during this time?
     
  4. nfprogress

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    I would wait out the last month. It looks like you are not going to have trouble making opportunities for sex in the very near future, so why not go ahead and give it the full 90?
     
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  5. Dir3ctX

    Dir3ctX Fapstronaut

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    Well thats my point... Its funny its became easier to get opportunities beacuse of nofap... I feel more secure masculine and less like a loser when i was fapping. For my other question. Do you get boners/edging from thougths facebook texting movies?
     
  6. Handzfree

    Handzfree Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    I think you've answered your own question. Look my friend, your two thirds the way to a great goal... Make it even sweeter by making it all the way, totally hard core.

    Just my opinion mind you..
     
  7. taqwa

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    Ultimately you want to be an relationship that completes you. My opinion: one night stands are part of the porn/masturbatin problem. Yes, it is with a real women. However, one night stands are usually not meaningful and often we tend to view those women as body parts with no soul. We objectify. This is a critical component of PMO. My opinion: it would more than likely lead you to a relapse. Take your time and find a woman that you humanize. I wish you well.
     
  8. Phibz

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    Hey man. Congrats on 61 days. We are still in infancy stage. Be careful. Don't be led around by your penis. I have been hardmode. I had my 1st date Wednesday night since starting this. It was a pleasant experience. I think I'm strong enough to enjoy the experience of sex. I want to avoid having sex just to have sex unless it is with someone I truly enjoy being with. Follow your heart and be true to yourself.
     
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  9. buzzlightyear

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    And if you find a woman that you humanize before those last 30 days, you could still finish 90 days completely. In the meantime you can get to know the girl ;)

    Congratulations on your progress!
     
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  10. Eskorbuto

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    That's the main problem, that even the most of part of the girls objectify to themselves, may be because they are afraid to love and be loved. Once they meet a man who makes feel her to be loved, then they start to be frightened because their minds say that he is going to hurt them like the others in the past... It is hard, nowadays, it is too hard to be in a relationship with a girl. We have been educated to look for the pleasure and avoid the pain, instead of be mature people and face the problems and solve them...

    Congrats, sir, for the 61 days, well done, keep going! This is only the beginning of a great adventure: the real life

    Best Regards,

    Eskorbuto
     
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