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Day 49: Success? Need advice

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Deleted Account, Jun 22, 2018.

  1. Hey everyone,

    My reason for joining nofap was pied and how I realized porn was the cause of all my negative sexual experiences. That being said, today I had sex with a girl I feel comfortable with and have had sex with before. Is it ok that I did so before the 90 days?

    I was completely hard the whole time with a condom on (although lasted shortly as it has been awhile) and I felt a little negative afterwards as I feel like I have ended my streak just to O. A few hours later, we had sex again but I feel much better and may have been harder than before. Is my pied cured? I feel like I cheated myself from the 90 days.
     
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  2. seebelow81

    seebelow81 Fapstronaut

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    My opinion would be don’t over think it. You have had a good connection with a girl, that’s good news. If you're feeling great, maybe think about changing your goals to just to P and M. Abstain from them but keep this relationship going. Personally I think it’s a good thing.

    From what I have read the 90 target is not exact science, its just a very good figure that covers most people. We're all different.
     
  3. over50

    over50 Fapstronaut

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    I'd say it depends on your targets but if PIED was your problem, than having sex with a real person without it is a huge success. The real problem is the P not the O (in my opinion).
     
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