Day 46 and keep so motivated

ClimberF · Mar 16, 2017

Hi friends!

I´m in day 46 in so motivated too accomplish my 90 days first challenge. But sincerely I believe I need more time to fully reboot. It depends on the age you started to PMO, how far the tasted escalated and how many times per day you PMOed.. Actually for me and I know for a lot of guys here 90 days is just the begining of a deep change in the brain and in the mindset to quit P for life.. No benefits at all of doing this (PMO) for many years.. (even decades). You know that today´s pornography is not normal at all. It´s too much for our brains (super stimulus, abnormal and completely artificial). Really have ruined relationships.

During this days I´ve been trying to keep my mind busy. I work 9am til 6pm.. Then I workout (specially climing, calisthenisc and/or yoga). Sometimes of course I see my friends to have some social life and speak with people.. That´s also good (to practice social skills). But I´m focused not looking for girls.. Try to be alone but happy...(for now) So, avoid triggers is really important. I´m trying not to partying too much because alcohol with girls is not a good combination during reboot. Hey guys we have to take it seriously!! this is our lifes!

One of my main triggers is social media and specially this f****** Facebook. 90% of my relapeses has been because of that. So I found and app blocker and this has been working really good for me. I personalize when can I enter to facebook...Highly recomend this.

SO identify your triggers and work hard to beat and control them. Try to enjoy your time alone doing something relax and/or good for yourself..

There are a lot of things that motivate me..
But one of the main reason is the way I see woman... The way I´ve been objetifying them for many many years. As a consequence of this you can not have a normal relationship or even a normal conversation with a girl you like.
Another thing that motivates me is to clean my brain of years and years of PMOOOO and take care of my prostate that have been "abused" making it to produce abnormal levels of semen.
To have a good and a health relationship in the future also motivates me.. For now I want to give a rest to my brain..

We are going to win this war!

YogiF

Awakening123 · Mar 16, 2017

You doing great yogi. Congrats on doing things on top of a super busy schedule. Keep up the good work!

Mr.simon · Mar 17, 2017

YogiF said: ↑

Hi friends!

I´m in day 46 in so motivated too accomplish my 90 days first challenge. But sincerely I believe I need more time to fully reboot. It depends on the age you started to PMO, how far the tasted escalated and how many times per day you PMOed.. Actually for me and I know for a lot of guys here 90 days is just the begining of a deep change in the brain and in the mindset to quit P for life.. No benefits at all of doing this (PMO) for many years.. (even decades). You know that today´s pornography is not normal at all. It´s too much for our brains (super stimulus, abnormal and completely artificial). Really have ruined relationships.

During this days I´ve been trying to keep my mind busy. I work 9am til 6pm.. Then I workout (specially climing, calisthenisc and/or yoga). Sometimes of course I see my friends to have some social life and speak with people.. That´s also good (to practice social skills). But I´m focused not looking for girls.. Try to be alone but happy...(for now) So, avoid triggers is really important. I´m trying not to partying too much because alcohol with girls is not a good combination during reboot. Hey guys we have to take it seriously!! this is our lifes!

One of my main triggers is social media and specially this f****** Facebook. 90% of my relapeses has been because of that. So I found and app blocker and this has been working really good for me. I personalize when can I enter to facebook...Highly recomend this.

SO identify your triggers and work hard to beat and control them. Try to enjoy your time alone doing something relax and/or good for yourself..

There are a lot of things that motivate me..
But one of the main reason is the way I see woman... The way I´ve been objetifying them for many many years. As a consequence of this you can not have a normal relationship or even a normal conversation with a girl you like.
Another thing that motivates me is to clean my brain of years and years of PMOOOO and take care of my prostate that have been "abused" making it to produce abnormal levels of semen.
To have a good and a health relationship in the future also motivates me.. For now I want to give a rest to my brain..

We are going to win this war!

YogiF
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I started nofap since new years. And i want to tell you. I have been masturbating since i think 11 or 12 years old. And now im gonna be 31 in November. But the thing is i had a girlfriend since i was 21 and have a kid. And not once have i show any emotion or love toward her one bit. I always masturbate at night time after she go to sleep. I never even care if she kiss me or hug me. And she was beautiful and thick. Her grandmother passed away and it didn't seem to bother me. So me and her split up. But i still pay 250 every 2 weeks and and we really still cool. She even though about giving me another chance. But for some reason. I felt like it was a waste of time. So fast forward to last year. I had another girlfriend. And we have sex. But off course i masturbate more than usual. And last november. I noticed every time we have sex. If i try to do doggystyle, my dick would go limp every time. And i decided to research why that's happening to me. And i found out about Nofap. So i decided it was time to quit. So when january came, i quit porn and never look back. But another problem occur. This time, i finger my girl and kiss and my dick wouldn't get hard not even for 1 second. It was completely dead. I had wet dream and i dont let these thing bother me. I still check escort picture cause im a horny bastard. Sometime i feel like I'm gettimg hard, but i still decided to keep staring so i let my brain knows I'm in control and that i will never jerk off again. Anyway, I've had sex probably 6 times now since the beginning of march with no problem. Im not hard like im suppose to. But the progress has been great.

So if i was you. I would still go on facebook. And if you cant handle picture from facebook then i dont think you will last doing this rebooting. You gotta test your brain and let it be known no matter the consequences, you won't jerk off

You gotta be strong and mean it bro. Sometime i get angry and last night my girl couldn't have sex because she was tired. So i finger her and i got hard. I still dont masturbate because if i give up then my brain will start getting use to my hand pleasuring myself. So be strong bro. If i can do it after 18 years and not once have i even though about masturbate again. I think you can do it.
Good luck

ClimberF · Mar 20, 2017

Thanks for the words Simon.

Day 50 now. Actually sometimes being strong is not enough. You have to be smart too.. And if I know facebook give me some problems relapsing I have to be as far as I can.. It´s about avoiding triggers.

I´m also doing PMO free and that´s also includes no sex with partner.. For me It´s a way to reboot faster and
efficiently.

I whish you good luck too!

YogiF

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