Day 42, No signs of flat line. Help please

Hi I haven't noticed signs of flat line.
1. In the 42 days I once had real S at day 26, (0ed through it for the first time in my life, caveat being the S was without condom after with condom failed).
2. On the same day, My gf gave me a hand job as well and I Oed to it. (Some people call it relapse, I dont think it is given I am trying to give my P a different set of hands to cure death grip, this was once and is not happening again though).
3. Anyways, one relapse in the reboot is allowed i guess?
4. All I am trying is to kill death grip and mild ED.
5. Porn free for 3 months
6. Still not free of S thoughts. I talk to my GF everyday and on video call and dirty things happen.But my P is 90% free of my hand. I get hard with like a gentle touch of my hand. Could this be the problem with my reboot?
7. I have very mild urges to masturbate, its much easier to control now. unlike the first 10 days.
8. Also no wet dream as of now barring twice in the first 10 days (This scares me)
8. I get hard fairly easily (never been a problem even before nofap), maintaining it and death grip key issues. Day 25 was pretty good on S, at keeping erections (Again with condom i failed to O, without condom it worked)
9. Should I reset my counter?
10. I get morning woods every 3-4 days when I wake but erections are 60-80 hard.

 

I think Porn is out of my system.

 

But I need some bit of aggression to get an erection (Verbal abuse, dominance I hope u know what I mean). Call that porn Side-effect