Cross dresser? I feel like crap..

The more you take care of yourself, the more attractive you will become to everyone else.

Go back to the basics. Why do you watch porn? What feelings or responsibilities are avoided through the use of porn?

How much better would your life be if you chose to work on yourself, instead of watching porn?

Make small steps towards that new life vision. Write an essay about it if you have to. Post it on your wall, tick the days on the calendar that you live according to your new life vision.

Listening to audio tracks may be relaxing, but taking action to change your life will be the most efficient way to feel better.

 

i’m the same except i like all as long as they look girly and that not me .

 

does that make us bi? or porn escalation?

 

Hi there I had a similar thing for the past year until last week or so when I destroyed the tight underwear that I had that made me aroused. Best of luck!

 

yes.

but, porn & mastubation rehab is still very important.. because it is scattering our life.. a sober person can focus much better on the woman he is with.. (or trans woman if he prefer those

 

I believe that liking of crossdressers comes from willingness to cheat the system and get "woman" when you can't get any.

 

i do have a hard time at getting women but i can get some . but im very shy and stuff and its hard for me to approach a women because im afarid of rejection

 

how does that make us bi when some of us dont get horny to those people in real life ? ive never gotten an erection to these kind of people face to face

 

i believe its porn escalation

 

Praying will give you peace of mind but it wont help you get "the girl."
Take a good hard look at yourself.
Now what are you able to change for the better? What are you willing to sacrifice? Are you willing to put in the time?
If so now is a good time to start, lets suppose you want to eat an elefant, how do you do it? The right answer is "one bite at a time" and by that i mean small changes will yield a massive change in the future, all you need to do is be consistente and you need to pick yourself up when you fall.

Learn from your past mistakes.

If you can manage that everything will eventually fall to place.

Best wishes

 

mine is too a similar case i too has some filthy "fetish" and i think it took over me all these years i'm in that devils hand and i wanna step out of that..

 

is it..i know its worse isnt it but this is the time we have to be strong and get over all the thoughts,it requires more than will power and since it has already rewired our brain we cannot let that take over again...we have to be strong and fight back!!

 

yeh bro its hard meanwhile its not impossible.what we need is just a replacement for its thoughts and clear your mind.I think meditation would help.