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Controlling the eyes, (Selfcontrol)

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Selfcontrol1, Jun 27, 2018.

  1. Selfcontrol1

    Selfcontrol1 Fapstronaut

    I think that if I control my eyes and don't look! I will në able to stay clean. Looking at females in the street is feeding my powerful brain that takes pictures with a amainzing memory retention. My brain it's a thirsty horse!!
    Is hard. Super hard to don't look.. Man how something so simple can be so hard?
    I relapsed at day 14 and now I'm in only day 2 again. I keep repeating my self that if I really want this I have to be super strong and treat my eyes like another enemy
     
  2. I agree, it is the best way to stay clean. I think lowering the gaze will help to reduce and weaken the things that may provoke desire in a person. but keeping it lowered does not imply that the gaze should always be kept lowered. It only means to imply that one should restrain the gaze and avoid casting of looks freely. That is, if it is not desirable to see a thing, one should turn the eyes away and avoid having a look at it.
    Strengthening one’s resolve and willpower, for this will make us able to resist and control our desires.
     
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  3. Selfcontrol1

    Selfcontrol1 Fapstronaut

    If I don't restraint my self from looking, I will never succeed
     
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  4. georgemcfly

    georgemcfly Fapstronaut

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    I totally agree. Going further, not just looking to women is a key point but controlling the inner images and phantasies that appear in the minds landscape. If you have realized that looking to women is a trigger you will soon realize that controlling inner imaginery is even more important. Meditation helps a lot in this matter.
     
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  5. Selfcontrol1

    Selfcontrol1 Fapstronaut

    You absolutely right!
     

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