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Continuous Relapse

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by BlackKnight, May 18, 2016.

  1. BlackKnight

    BlackKnight Fapstronaut

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    So, today, 19 hours in I relapsed and afterwards I took a shower, and almost cried and thought about my constant weakness, and I really need help
     
  2. Awakening123

    Awakening123 Fapstronaut

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    You just gotta keep on trying. there are no shortcuts. Learn from this relapse: what made you relapse? Did you watch porn? If so then download a blocker. DO you keep yourself active by staying busy, working out, running, socailizing, having an accountability partner can also help. Good luck!
     
  3. WHY are you relapsing, mate? Boredom, loneliness, stress?

    Dig a bit and unearth the root of your weakness. You can't battle what's making you fail until you identify what it is.
     
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  4. BlackKnight

    BlackKnight Fapstronaut

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    Its a mix of loneliness and stress as well as the feeling of hopelessness in me ever getting a girl
     
  5. Awakening123

    Awakening123 Fapstronaut

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    You might wanna keep getting a gf off for the time being until you have gained a few weeks/months of rebooting. I say this because it can be a very lonely feeling during rebooting when you don't have a partner. If you have it in your mind that you don't need a gf until you are recovered, it could help you not keep thinking about not having a gf as not having a gf is a trick mind uses to justify relapses.
     

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