The identity we create for ourselves is a false one. All those things you believe about yourself? Pretty much lies. The only accurate view of you and who you are, the only true portrayal of your identity, is the one God sees, because he made you and knows you better than you know yourself. And do you know what he says about you? You are his beloved daughter that he cherishes more than anything. He says you are 100% OK with him. You are forgiven, for every little and every big thing you have ever done wrong. Right now this very instant, everything is OK. You are free. With that freedom, you have options; you can choose which way you will go. If you want to embrace the identity God has set for you, you can move in the direction of his love. Or, you can continue to live in the lies you have built up around yourself and the death and destruction that they bring. It really is your choice. There are two tables before you: one filled with food that will nourish and one laden with food that is poisoned and will slowly kill you. You're right next to the poisoned food, so it's easy to reach out and eat from it. The other table seems far away. It will take effort to reach it. The path is clearly marked but seems very arduous. You will have help every step of the way if you decide to get up and start the journey. This community is one such help to you. You will have clear guidance from God as you walk. The best of your life is ahead of you. I am praying for you and cheering you on!