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Concern with my PE when watching porn.

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Marcus the Triumvir, Oct 31, 2018.

  1. Oct 31, 2018 #1
    Marcus the Triumvir

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    I have started my day 1, which I have already failed, but I guess tomorrow is another day. I have noticed for the past years that I when I have been watching porn, I don't care about whether I use lube or not, how rough I am, and I seem to be concentrated on going as furiously as I can until I O. I have also noticed that I rarely last longer than 2 minutes this way, and it makes me very concerned. I have read that there can be both psychological and biological reasons, and I am afraid that I can't reverse this (this fear has caused me to seek comfort in porn).

    On the other hand, I have noticed that when I was with my ex (my only partner) I was anxious and possessive and this caused me to barely be able to get it up, let alone keep it up. Its like I O to way to fast to porn, but can never O and have ED with a living partner.

    I am afraid to start NoFap because I am afraid it will have no effect, and I won't be able to last long ever and I won't be able to recover the penile sensitivity I lost due to furious and dry masturbation. I am also afraid that I will never be able to have enjoyable and long lasting sex if I ever get with another partner

    Could anyone tell me their experiences and give me any advice, I would appreciate it. Thank you.
     
    Marcus the Triumvir, Oct 31, 2018
    Marcus the Triumvir, Oct 31, 2018
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  2. Oct 31, 2018 #2
    JakeWoods

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    “I’m afraid to start Nofap because I’m afraid it will have no affect”

    Watching porn is what gave you this problem. So quitting porn is what it takes to fix it.

    Penile sensitivity will go back to normal after a while of abstaining from masturbation. It’s kind of like when you’re using your hands all day every day, the skin gets rough and desensitised. But when you stop, the skin returns to its previous soft state again.

    Quit porn and excessive masturbation. Things will return to normal in time.
     
    JakeWoods, Oct 31, 2018
    JakeWoods, Oct 31, 2018
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  3. Nov 7, 2018 #3
    Difficult 2 Stop

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    wierd how the mind can work and different cases can be different. I have PE both during M and S.
     
    Difficult 2 Stop, Nov 7, 2018
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  4. Jan 3, 2019 #4
    Limitbreaker

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    Abstaining a while like 30 days can help. Let me state something important: The effects of Premature Ejaculation are all reverseble! I was at this point too. You have to accept it and focus all your energy on your improvement, on what you can do for healing up.

    Your self awareness is the fist step. This is really good. Now use this for your advantage. You need to decide: Do you want to hide behind self doubts and never find out of what you are capable of? Or do you want to try, fail, fall, rise up and get the life you want in the end? Its your choice.

    I made a big thread about Premature Ejaculation and physical effects. Of course there is a lot going on mentally, but you have to start at one point and it doesnt really matter how you start. Its important that you start at a point.

    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...aculation-how-to-cure-it.206762/#post-1806385

    You are welcome
     
    Limitbreaker, Jan 3, 2019
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