Compulsive sexual behavior

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Sasski, Apr 22, 2019.

  1. Sasski

    Sasski Fapstronaut

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    Hello,
    Yes i know, i hope to find a consistent female partner to track my progress with, it's really bad to be alone and knows that not anyine can understand you, thank you
     
  2. Pepezapallito

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    No estás más sola! Acá te entendemos muy bien. Al menos y seguro q muchos más también. Hay que seguir activo en el foro y con el tiempo vas a ir contactandote con las personas femeninas indicadas. Estoy seguro! En positivo amiga! <3
     
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  3. Sasski

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    Thank you for your support, i have found a one and i hope she accepts me
     
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  4. +TenPercent

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    From what you described in your opening post, it sounds like you are in the right place and doing the right things: you are reading that book, you are being honest and taking a hard look at your addiction and you are reaching out for help.
    (and either you speak many languages or there is a translation function that I am unaware of because I can't read half the posts on this thread!)

    I would also suggest looking into 12 step programs and attend meetings if you can. Personally, I go to SLAA meetings https://slaafws.org but depending on where you live, there may be more meetings for SA, SAA, LAA or SCA . . . they're all good.
    Face to face interaction with other addicts (aka a support group) who are trying to get well is probably the best thing that you can do to overcome your addiction. But if you can't get to any in-person meetings, there are also phone meetings and online meetings.

    Best of luck to you and I trust that you will find the support that you are looking for!
     
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  5. Sasski

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    Yeah but i still have no enough control. Which keeps me drawning more and more, i have to have a commitment to the book and therapy but i have that ungil now, drowning and raising up. Myself from water to shout for help.

    I am speaking English but arabic is my native language. There were comments in Spanish but i have understood it thanked to Google translation.

    I heard a lot about SLAA but i didn't know how to have online meetings there, i can't find fave to face meetings in my country

    Thank you for support
     
  6. Pepezapallito

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    Yo asisto a un grupo de 12 pasos, alanon, son geniales!! Me ayuda mucho. Sasky, encantado soy Pepe zapallito. Tu ya sabes cualquier cosa me podés mensajear. El traductor de Google nos salva jeje
     
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  7. Sasski

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    Yes, it was really nice to know you and people here, they are all fighters, and i will check 12 steps program as soon as possible
     
  8. DekuHope

    DekuHope Fapstronaut

    I feel you. Sexting and those Images in my childhood. We have sinilar experience. I was doing sexting because there was no porn full filling my imagination. I needed more. Hentai was not enough. It consumed me as well. And I got depressed for 3-4 years. My family knew about my depression.
     
  9. Pepezapallito

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    Hola sasky, asistió a un grupo de 12 pasos? Gracias
     
  10. TimeToQuitNow

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    It's good that you came here. Just keep fighting the urges! Hopefully you recover soon
     
  11. Blackjedireturns

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    Hi friend thanks for reaching out.
    First and foremost I want to tell you your are loved and their are people around you who love you for who you are never forget that.
    Your struggle is unfortunate and I can relate to the powerful urges that Porn and the Fantasy world gives us.
    But as you can tell for yourself, its all a lie.
    You will never be satisfied enough. Their will never be enough energy. These additions are temporary pleasures .
    I hope and pray you will build the heart and mind to fight this. Cuz from your story it wont be easy seeing as it started at such a young age. Dont be afraid to reach out say hi and I can get some more context about your story and we can heal each other through this
     

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