Coming to terms with abstinence

Then, what is the problem? If you worked as hard as you say you did, then why blame yourself and believe you can't have the things you want?

 

The question is do you just want to get laid? Or do you want a relationship? Getting laid is easy. Maintaining a relationship is not so simple. Work out your priorities because if all you NEED is a good lay then your not serving your inner purpose. You want to be a shallow construct of getting girls, and fucking whoever looks good to you go ahead just be that guy. There's plenty of men who do that, not even remotely close to the ideal standard and they live life like that until they die. Not judging if that's what you want but could be a turnoff for some women around you. Sex is not a game, your sharing your energy with another human being, your letting their energy into you as well. Society makes you believe its a game, but it can be much more damaging than that. Those people who have sex available 24/7 usually carry alot of emotional garbage with them which takes a toll on their soul. So do you what you want but with caution.