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Checking out real girls?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Freedom is a state of mind, May 24, 2017.

  1. Hey!

    Basically summer is coming, girls start to wear short dresses and skirts. Since I am in love with women thighs (also jerked off to lot P with thighs in it) I was wondering if it could be beneficial or it would be harmful to check out girls on the streets and fantasize them of a bit? I do not want to sound like a wierdo, but we all check out hot girls I guess and I think that real women can really help to stop wondering about P. Do anyone have experience with this kind of approach on rebooting?

    Please feel free to answer :- )
     
  2. Dizzy Lotus

    Dizzy Lotus Fapstronaut

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    No, I really don't think that would be beneficial. If anything, I'd say it could easily make matters worse. [​IMG]
     
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  3. Veeav

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    1. Most girls don't like to be checked out.
    2. It will trigger you - triggers don't help.
    3. Doing it on purpose to help with your reboot (which won't occur) is weird :confused:
     
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  4. ds112358

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    I try to keep things simple when it comes to this. If you see a woman (stranger) who you find attractive, you only have two options:
    A is to introduce yourself, talk to her, interact with her, and get to know her. If you can't or not willing to do that, option B is to keep to yourself and focus on something else.
    As you progress and keep doing this, you'll find that you'll go with option A more and more often, which is really healthy for your confidence and emotions!
    Hope this helps.

    DS
     
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