Castration fantasies

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by LTLThrowaway93, May 8, 2019.

  1. LTLThrowaway93

    LTLThrowaway93 Fapstronaut

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    What if I do it in the future?
    After finding nofap, I've failed to stop for 4 years.
    I justified use of porn like that for 14 years. What makes me think I'll just stop and never do it again?
     
  2. DekuHope

    DekuHope Fapstronaut

    Guys I am out this discussion is already in good hands. You dont need me here
     
  3. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    That just sounds like social anxiety. You need to work on that
     
  4. Infinite spirit

    Infinite spirit Fapstronaut

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    It's ok..visit a good psychiatrist and work on these issues. That's the solution. Losing your balls won't solve shit.
    Let go of it. Forgive yourself. And move on. Losing your balls won't change the past.
    You didn't harm them.
    That's OCD. Women don't fear normal men. Just he a normal guy. By avoiding this filth called porn.
     
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  5. LTLThrowaway93

    LTLThrowaway93 Fapstronaut

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    How? The constant fear significantly hinders social interactions.
     
  6. LTLThrowaway93

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    I've tried everything I can think of to forgive. Meditations on letting go, prayer, confession, telling people confidentially, going to therapy, positive notes flash cards, vowing never to do it, reverse psychology. But I can't let go of it.

    Women seem afraid of pretty normal situations.
    Men fear women will reject them. Women fear men will rape and kill them.
     
  7. Infinite spirit

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    Ok..castrate yourself ..maybe that's will help you let go.
    You must be joking . I'm out at This point.
     
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  8. LTLThrowaway93

    LTLThrowaway93 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you.

    That a Margaret Atwood quote you can find pretty easily on sites concerning women's safety. Along with discussions on Schrodinger's rapist and the articles I had previously mentioned.
    But take care.
     
  9. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    Find an activity you like and join a group that does it. It can't hurt.

    Also, will castration really help you become more sociable? I doubt it. It might make things worse
     
  10. LTLThrowaway93

    LTLThrowaway93 Fapstronaut

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    Alright.

    And probably not. I just get so frightened by all the quotes and articles and scare stories I read (coupled with regret and shame) that the notion of not having a sex drive at all seems enjoyable.
     
  11. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    @LTLThrowaway93

    To be honest I think you have a perception of women that simple isn't true or at the very least you are greatly over exaggerating. Women aren't going to be afraid of you if you politely talk to them. Even if you come across as a little creepy they probably won't be afraid, they'll just be annoyed. You don't think women like when men flirt with them?

    Yes women do fear getting raped. You probably shouldn't stop girls in the middle of the street at night and strike up a conversation. But you seem to think that all women are afraid of you all the time. I can guaranty that isn't true. Next time you are in an environment where people are talking to one another, say your job or a bar, talk to whichever cute girl you see. Couldn't hurt. And maybe it'll help you get over your social anxiety.
     
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  12. LTLThrowaway93

    LTLThrowaway93 Fapstronaut

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    Alright.
    I think women like flirting, but I constantly fear I'll do something wrong while attempting to flirt that makes them feel unsafe.
    I'm talking to someone online, but I'm terrified of meeting her in person.(note, I also don't really flirt, so it probably will just stay where it is)
     
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  13. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    You should meet her! It's a great way to get over your fear of women. And you don't need to flirt. Do what feels comfortable.

    And maybe she'll be just a friend. But that is good. You seem like you need more friends. And who knows, maybe she'll be the wife you claim to want one day
     
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  14. LTLThrowaway93

    LTLThrowaway93 Fapstronaut

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    Alright.
    Thank you.
     
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