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Cant masturbate near partner

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by namel3ss, Nov 11, 2018.

  1. namel3ss

    namel3ss Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone,
    yesterday my boyfriend and I were in the bed and we wanted to masturbate. He is pretty normal when I touch him he cums and all but in my case my penis is weird:
    when I touch it i feel less and its floppy and its hard to get hard
    when he touches me its kinda same but I can get hard but I never came

    I stopped masturbating for 2 weeks but 2 days before he visited me I watched Porn and it was normal, the feeling was normal I was able to get Hard and I could feel I nearly came(I didnt cum)
    before him and before Hormones I watched and masturbated to porn and hentai very often.

    Now my question is; is it just in my brain that im for example too shy to cum near him or is it because of too much porn?
     
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  2. YeetBoi21

    YeetBoi21 Fapstronaut

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    I’d say it’s the porn
     
  3. namel3ss

    namel3ss Fapstronaut

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    ok a small update,
    since that post I didnt watched porn or masturbated and now I tried again near him it was a bit better than last time but after a while still floppy and I didnt feeled much.

    Can I do something?
     
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  4. JugOfJugs

    JugOfJugs New Fapstronaut

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    Cut out the porn.
    Its the porn that causing this problem. Ive had a similar issue and i'm 21.

    Went away after 29 days of no porn
     
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  5. namel3ss

    namel3ss Fapstronaut

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    How long did it take for you? I´ve cut it now like 3 weeks and its still not as sensitive as when im doing it alone
     
  6. CTRL + DEL

    CTRL + DEL Fapstronaut

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    Your account shows the female sign but you mention "my dick" a lot. Are you by chance a guy?

    Just set something straight here; are you a gay couple or a straight couple? Because depending on the context, the answer can be wildly different although porn use can be to blame in both instances, especially hentai because that's sexual conditioning for unreal triggers.
     
  7. namel3ss

    namel3ss Fapstronaut

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  8. CTRL + DEL

    CTRL + DEL Fapstronaut

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    Well that complicates things a bit.
    What is your preferred gender? (I'm guessing F but jut wanna be sure)
     
  9. namel3ss

    namel3ss Fapstronaut

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    ´Yes i prefer female. The thing is I dont think its completely the hormones. Sure, I dont have much testo and my male libido is lower but the feeling is still there when doing it alone .
     

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