Cant get erection.

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Tommyg9873, Apr 28, 2019.

  1. Tommyg9873

    Tommyg9873 Fapstronaut

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    Hey people. Im not doing very well, im getting quite upset rn. Im really worried that i have fucked up my sexual life forever. Im only 18 and i have been watching porn for a long time but the porn escalated to feed my lust and desires so i ended up watching hardcore porn and speaking to girls within that area which fed my addiction. Ive started the no pmo but im really worried. I tried to have sex but i didnt even get an errection, but i still thought she was hot and attractive. I was lucky to of forgot a condom so it wasnt really embarrassing, we just made out and shit. Will i ever be attractived to vanilla again?Am i just going through flatline? I there anything i can do to make myself sexuality attractived to vannila real life stuff? Sorry for shit english, just panicking and upset.
     
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  2. bfdet

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    Hi '9873

    It took you a while to get where you are today because of PMO, so don't expect to undo the damage done to your mind and body overnight. You can, and you will, heal by following a noPMO reboot, but it does take some time and commitment to work.

    If you haven't already done so, read "the getting started guide" that you can find on this site's homepage (noFAP). It includes a lot of helpful information.

    I'd encourage you to try a hard mode reboot of at least 30 days. 90 days would very likely be better. It won't be easy, but you CAN do it.

    Stop the PMO and get started on your journey to healing.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
  3. bfdet

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    hi '9873 !

    Just checking in. You OK ?

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
  4. Tommyg9873

    Tommyg9873 Fapstronaut

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    Im great today. Built up some sexual tension with a girl and got an small erection so im seeing progress. Much love for the support brother.
     
  5. bfdet

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    Good. Keep going. Remember, don't be checking out your progress alone; THAT will lead to resets and relapses. You KNOW you are healing and you KNOW the noPMO journey will continue to help you heal, so stay on track and keep going. Your body and your mind will continue to heal if you allow them time to do so.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     

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