Can you get std from oral if virgin

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  1. legendsneverdie

    legendsneverdie Fapstronaut

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    Hi I have a question

    I just learned that you can’t get a girl pregnant through bj, even if she swallows

    Let’s say the guy is a virgin (hasn’t done any sexual activity). that means he does NOT have any stds and so cannot transmit or give anyone stds right???

    okay now say the girl gives him a bj, but the girl has STDs.

    That’s all they do. So the guy cannot pass on or give stds to the girl i am assuming.. but can the guy get STD from receiving the bj from girl who has std
     
  2. Awedouble

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  3. legendsneverdie

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    yes but specifically i was wondering if i am a virgin and gf gives me oral, can she get std. I thought a virgin has no std
     
  4. Awedouble

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    ... a virgin has no std BEFORE they have sex, including oral sex. After you have sex, including the first time obviously there's a chance it's transmitted. Your original question is if the girl has STD can she give it to the guy virgin who doesn't, and the answer is yes. Think about it, the disease is always given from someone who has it to someone who doesn't.
     
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  5. legendsneverdie

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    okay thanks but i think you are misunderstanding. I am not saying “after i have had sex”.

    I am saying let’s say i am a virgin but then i receive oral. Well then since i am a virgin, i have no std, therefore i can not transmit any std to the girl giving the bj. Now if two have intercourse and both are virgins then there cannot be any std
     
  6. MourdeCallsMeHazel

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    That's correct.
     
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  7. Awedouble

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    You had two parts in your original post, I was replying to the part about oral, which is the subject title of the post as well. If you are clear about what you are asking again this information can be easily found online.

    I wasn't saying after you personally have had sex, but since you are asking such a simple question I was outlining the simple way it works in general. The person who has already had sex (not you) can give it to the one who has not had sex yet, for both intercourse and oral.

    If you are taking this seriously then you may want to get the information from an authoritative source, (did you look at the CDC link?) instead of posting on a forum out of convenience.
     
  8. fadedfidelity

    fadedfidelity Fapstronaut

    If you are a virgin and have not have penetrative vaginal sex with a girl, BUT you have let a girl give you a BJ and she has had sexual relations with another person, then yes you can get an STD. And then you can give that STD to another girl who gives you a BJ too.
     
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  9. fadedfidelity

    fadedfidelity Fapstronaut

    How can someone be 19 years old and not know this basic stuff about sex?? Did you not go to school, have biology class, or have your parents talk to you or even friends?? What about the valid resources on the internet and books??
     
  10. legendsneverdie

    legendsneverdie Fapstronaut

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    wait what nooooo how can that be possible. How can a girl giving you a bj transmit a std to you? That’s like saying her saliva can transmit an std
     
  11. legendsneverdie

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    because i am a virgin and believe in no sex before marriage

    I also had specific questions that i couldn’t find results on internet, such as what happens if one is virgin but the other is not

    i think sex is best when it’s two pure virgins. Cuz then there is no std you can possibly get
     
  12. Awedouble

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    Why do you think that matters? If someone you have sex with has STD, why would it matter if you have ever had sex before? There's no law in the universe that prevents them from not getting STD the first time around. I don't know why you assume that's a significant factor.
     
  13. legendsneverdie

    legendsneverdie Fapstronaut

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    hey dude can you chill out a bit? I don’t know these things. That’s why i’m asking

    I didn’t understand how stds even arise. i wondered: do you get stds by having sex? Can two virgins give each other stds?

    But now i realize stds are passed like a virus from people who already have it to people who don’t.
     
  14. legendsneverdie

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    dang... i guess the only thing to do is abstain. I don’t want no stds just to lose my precious seed
     
  15. Awedouble

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    I just didn't understand your thinking process. So you know now that it's from body fluids right? That's why people use condoms.
     
  16. legendsneverdie

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    okay no worries man. Ya.. it all seems so risky, but everyone does it anyway.

    I am gonna commit to staying pure and hopefully i will find a virgin girl. That would be sick
     
  17. Awedouble

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    To answer your second question about two virgins, it's rare but STD is not exclusively transmitted by sex because there's even other possibilities like blood transfusion. It's very unlikely but again, body fluid -
     
  18. fadedfidelity

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    That does not excuse the ignorance and lack of knowledge about how your body and a woman's body work! If you want to be a good husband and make your wife happy in bed, then you got some learning to do! That excuse is like saying just because you don't own a car yet, you don't want to learn to drive and get your license to prepare!
     
  19. MourdeCallsMeHazel

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    The kid is only 19 from his profile and it's apparent he didn't have much teaching in school (our school district barely goes over sex ed and is one of the top schools on the east coast academically), or from his parents. We shouldn't come down on him about having a lack of knowledge or say he has ignorance. Especially when he's still a virgin and asking questions to learn.

    He's actually a diamond in the rough that he's made it to that age and is still a virgin and knows he wants a pure partner someday.

    I think his situation here is more like: he knows he wants a car someday so he's trying to learn and prepare before he gets it.
     
  20. legendsneverdie

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    haha you sounds like my mom:D

    I have already done lots of learning on how to be a good husband and make wife happy in bed (no not through porn, but through reading a lot on this site and through various other sources. reading comments on youtube by girls and i feel like i understand them better).

    I will be the best husband ever, loving, caring, and i won’t have any pmo problem! i am already over 4 months pmo free, and i’ve learned so much on my journey.

    I will be the best i can be in all that i do

    i would be awesome in bed. You might laugh, but trust me, i don’t care about my own pleasure so much as giving girl pleasure.

    I would want long foreplay and lots of buildup because i know that excites her. I also like a lot of intimacy and i hate arguments. i never argue with ppl in the last year. I know a lot about emotional issues and have resolved a lot of them through internal reflection, prayer, and forgiving those who have hurt me. I also morally try to not do any wrong ever. i have never cursed, i am mindful of what i day and think, i have never and will never touch drugs, alcohol.

    I’m getting in tip top shape at the gym and through sports and making myself the best i can be.

    I will be a loving husband. I hear so often girls asking “are there any good men out there?”

    Yes i’m here:) haha sorry this was bragging but i am proud of myself and all that i have learned and overcome.
     

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