Can people actually recover back to healthy full normal erections?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Anonymous86, Mar 12, 2019.

  1. wlx3

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    I get that but that's not a concern for me. It happened because I fancied the girl a lot. If it was an any ol' random woman, I doubt it would have happened. I've been in bed with girls I REALLY like and felt nothing below the waist when I was PMOing every other day; even after 20 mins of kissing and touching, dead dick! I'll take raging boners all day long. For me, it's nothing to be embarrassed about at all. Just don't announce that you have one haha.
     
  2. 1978

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    Yes, if it was a choice between one extreme or the other, I would choose that too.
     
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  3. NewMan11

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    Actually you can Recover Fully Back to your life...That i got my erections back fully in just 20 Days or less..... Check my first post 8 march when i was near to suicide but now i am recovering like 90%
     
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  4. bken

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    I sometimes wonder what's worse: not being able to get an erection or having wired them to the wrong stimuli? The last scenario is often overlooked but is just as bad.
     
  5. TantusJulius

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    I do not want to scare you, so i Will not!

    (but if you relapse things can become very bad, or maybe you Will hit withdrawals after 2-3 months)
     
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  6. 1978

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    Wow, that's an amazing turnaround!
     
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  7. NIIED

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    Today is my 91 days of nopmo (3~4 wet dreams)
    Trying to cure my damn severe pied
    But still i believe im in a flatline ,yesterday tried to have sex with that girl but sadly no real movement down there ;(( well there was but not enough to penetrate.
    I need more time i guess other 2 to 3 months I'm sure i will feel more improvement i hope
    Keep it dude
     
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  8. BigOne79

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    If you have wired to the wrong stimuli can you reverse it though is the question..
     
  9. Alex__13

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    I do not want to discourage anyone, but in severe cases I have not heard anyone heal. Probably in mild cases there is a way to return. Prayers will give God a chance, otherwise your life will turn into a nightmare.
     
  10. Depressed&Out

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    I know someone who couldn't get it up to Porn but managed to get 10/10 erections eventually - albeit not every time.

    I agree though, it's just hopeless for most severe cases, especially if you're like me who doesn't have any real sexual pathways in the brain.

    I just feel so suicidal, I just want to end this misery of nearly two decades. :(
     
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  11. wlx3

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    I haven't heard this? I've only heard of full recoveries – some just take a lot longer than others. Also, you've got to keep in mind that some people (of course, not all) might be screwing up the process, making BIG mistakes: still looking at pics on their phone, not exercising, not sleeping, not truly believing in the process and make things worse with negative thinking (which I KNOW, is hard to stop).

    Also, low testosterone and high amounts of stress will make boners and libido a drag. I think, from my experience and reading, it's rare to wake up and think I'm cured! Just aim to have sex when things are looking up and continue to improve from there. My morning wood is getting better slowly but surely!
     
  12. BigOne79

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    What would you consider severe cases though. I have heard stories of people that watched a lot of stuff other than vanilla porn and they have healed.

    I think you have to be a little more clear when you talk about people not healing in severe cases. People that go hard mode and refrain from PMO for a year and sometimes more have healed.

    Are you talking about people that cannot stop PMO and keep lapsing that will not heal..??
     
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  13. wlx3

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    I'm so sorry to hear you're in this place. Please hang on brother. Watch some of Noah B Churches's videos on YoutTube – he has loads of comment from people in your position who turned things around. Please do all you can to help yourself get through this, on the path to better things.

    I've been there and I know it's a horrible place to be.
     
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  14. BigOne79

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    You saying you have not been able to kick PMO habit for two decades sir...

    You have to incorporate other things in your life. I am having difficulty too in five months but getting better.

    What has been your longest streak..?? You need an accountability partner is what I would suggest ...
     
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  15. BigOne79

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    Yeah, I haven’t heard disaster stories from people. I have actually red that the brain does heal and the neural pathways eventually will as well. Normal stimulation to regular things around us will return...

    I also agree that psychological causes need to also be evaluated as stress, self esteem issues play a part as well as past trauma that PMO has been covering up.

    Again, he is saying severe issues but does that mean people that cannot stop PMO, or those that go a full year and no benefits on hard mode ..
     
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  16. bigboibez

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    Yea this negativity is just ridiculous. Get positive. Everyone can heal. Quit now and never look back. Nothing good comes from porn. Whether you heal or not (you will) porn is never gonna help. Stop now.
     
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  17. Depressed&Out

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    No, what I'm saying is that for the past two decades I've had to put any prospect of a relationship to the back burner as I had difficulties with employment, self-identity, confidence, etc. All of those meant that I avoided society and women in particular (bad social isolation for many years). To this moment I've been building myself to be in good shape (as a person) to attract a GF - but time and after time I get obstacles, the biggest of which is off course PIED.

    I don't have problem avoiding porn (last time I watched was August 2017) and haven't MO in 156 days.

    I also practice good habits: gym, studying, meditation, yoga, etc.
     
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  18. TantusJulius

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    Forget about meditation, and yoga brother. That my opinion. Those will not make you happier, smarter, calmers etc. in long term, and they posses side effects too. For some people they cause depression, anxiety, social isolation etc.
     
  19. Vandermeer

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    That´s bullshit. People who seriously practice yoga or meditation for a longer time, will confirm you that it gives them more balance in life with it, then without it. Like regularly excercising will make the body stronger and fitter, regular yoga and meditation will strenghten your mind and soul.
     
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  20. TantusJulius

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    Just google it, for many people yoga and meditation will have opposite effect, I just wanted to warn him, to be sure he knows. Those who exercise some of them become stronger, meanwhile others get injured. Unfortunately many do not know such dangers of meditation, and yoga.
     
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