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Called an escort and got robbed...

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Ghost79, Nov 23, 2016.

  1. Ghost79

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    I am not going to argue, you don't know what I look like and yet you think I am not as bad looking as I think. I don't know if I should take this as a compliment or insult for not believing me and thinking I am just using it as an excuse for not getting women.
    A dating coach is the last hope I have for ever making a woman like me. Actually some women have liked me for being friendly, funny and for having a interesting soul, but they simply can't put aside the fact the way I look!
    And because of that, they are unable to feel any intimacy or spark with me :(
    A gambler would certainly bet on that I am going to end up alone.
     
  2. nitsuj0786

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    You do whatever you think to do and I did not mean it as an insult. I am just more to the point than most. Best of luck to you.
     
  3. Adria

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    How did you become unnatractive if you were handsome before? Just aging??
     
  4. Mattsfreedom

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    Never pay till services are rendered.;)
     
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  5. Adria

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    more like never pay for sex at all... it's degrading for both taking part in it
     
  6. Ghost79

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    Its personal, but point is, the only way I am ever being able to attract a woman is by my character or the things I can do for her. As women don't really differ that much from men in regards of visual stimulant, I'm actually screwed!
     
  7. Adria

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    I'm sorry. Whatever happened to you I'm sure you can find someone who accepts you and understands your situation... Not everybody relies so much on visual stimulant
     
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  8. Themadfapper

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    If you think your happiness depends on having a relationship with a woman then yes you're in a bad spot. What exactly is it that you think a woman will do for you? If you want a family and children then a woman is needed for that purpose otherwise, why do you think having a woman is so important?

    "The things I can do for her" sounds like this person wants to use you. Why would you desire someone like that?

    Some of the lamest guys and ugliest guys around pick up tons of women. I've seen it with my own eyes. Drugs, fashion, money, prestige/ reputation [ almost always phony] seem to be bigger factors than looks. Yes, women are superficial too, but they are not as influenced by looks as much as men are.
     
  9. Mattsfreedom

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    That's good advice.

    Stop trying to justify why she robbed you, and she's not going to give you the money back because it was a robbery not that she found you "very unattractive". If you do happen to visit a escort again a legit escort will not ask for you to pay them first. However its a risky business and I don't recommend it. I would post that she's a fraud as well so others don't fall for it.
     
  10. Life has probably done more to her than you ever could, I would say learn your lesson and move on.
     
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  11. tweeby

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    This.
     
  12. Ghost79

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    I don't have any bad intentions to her
     
  13. Cyrus the Virus

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    You are writing on a porn addiction website, complaining that a prostitute didn't find you attractive enough to perform exactly what you paid her for. Is this for real!? You have not mentioned any remorse about seeing a prostitute, only that this experience made you feel unattractive. Do you realize that seeing prostitutes will only make your sexual addictions and problems greatly worse. So porn is too much but having sex with prostitutes is still ok? The logic here is beyond me. What are you trying to accomplish?

    This is a place for people to try and rid their lives of sex and porn addiction. This is not a place for people to talk about not getting their moneys worth from prostituted women. Are you sure you belong here on NoFap?

    If this sounds harsh, it's because it is, and I want to help. Want to feel better about yourself? Stop being a John paying for sex! Respectable men do not hire prostituted women for sex. Be a man and respect women. Then maybe you will feel better about yourself.
     
  14. Deadlihood

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    Is OP's real name Ryan Lochte?
     
  15. Ghost79

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    I will not argue that seeing a prostitute is not a good idea. But I was in need of affection of a female, and as I have been unable to find it and had it very very difficult that day, so I seeked it at dark places.
    Yeah I definitely belong on NoFap. I want to destroy my porn addiction and greatly reduce my handjob sessions!
     
  16. nitsuj0786

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    First off I would like to start off stating that I am not saying this to be mean and this is the last time I will write on this thread unless you bring a new question or something changes. This sounds like a big pity party and I don't attend those, let me tell you why I say that. I don't believe in the slightest that you are too unattractive. I have seen some down right ugly dudes get some 10's and pull tail all the time. They all have confidence though and I can tell by your writing that you don't. You are holding on to this unattractive thing for dear life though and I don't think you even realize that it is an excuse. I believe you have told yourself this so much know that you believe it. From your writing I also can imagine how you walk and carry yourself when you are around people. Probably not looking people in the eye, head down, and slouching, if I am correct then girls will naturally repel from you because you are making yourself look like a weird loser when you do that. If makes you look like a shut in. Not trying to be mean just trying to point out something that you may not truly see. If you want to stick so much to the unattractive thing and that is what you are going to go to, then we can not help you here. You don't seem to be open to others opinion of what might really be going on. So, this is what I propose you do. First a prostitute will not give you true affection, if you are ok with that go with porn it is much cheaper. That is if you are not willing to try and see this from a new prospective. I believe you will eventually hit true rock bottom at some point down this road. I may get some hate from that but I don't believe you are ready to see that yet. Or you can try and look from a new prospective. If you would like to try and can help you and many others can. I am happy to do personal messages too if you want. Again, I am not trying to be mean in this post just want you to see what your options are because you aren't really giving us the option to help at the moment. Good luck on whatever path you choose.
     
  17. SnowWhite

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    If a man pays for sex, he is always unattractive for a woman.

    That case, of course, is in fact a fraud. But please simply forget it. Think of your money like "invested into experience".

    I recommend you to let you fingers away from prostitutes. It's making things really worse.
     
  18. badem85

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    Dear Hawx, just wanted to say that finding affection with a prostitute is completely possible. You can even find a prostitute that will make you fall in love with her and make you feel that she loves you.

    Then you will realize that all she wants is your money. She will use you and throw you out.
    Just a friendly warning.
     
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  19. Ghost79

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    You think I am not unattractive, yet you havent seen me at all, and I am the one who needs to see myself everyday, and the way people look at me when I go outside.
    I am active with sports, have broad shoulders and walk upright, but I rather not look people into the eyes. Because then I see the mocking hate into there eyes while starring at me, which upsets me a lot and ruins my whole day.
    So what is your advice for me? Be more confident? I am tired of life and I just try to do what I can now. I try to talk to women and subscribed to a few dating site, but when they look at my pictures in my profile, none of them reply to me. Which is a real pity, because I know I am a good guy.
    it is the price I have to pay for being so ugly. I sit a lot alone at home. Besides my mother, no one calls me or asks how I am. No one wants to be my friend because they are ashamed of being seen with me. I am hideous to women, its not a opinion of me, but the cold ugly truth. I have a big brother and sister, they both look good and they have finished college, are married and have children. But my ugly face has ruined my life and the bad treatment I get it form other people has damaged my mental well being, probably for good.
     
  20. nitsuj0786

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    You will perceive what you want to perceive. Good luck to you. As I said when you finally let go of this "truth" as you say, you will see it the way many do on this site. I do have one piece of advise for you. Save your money on a dating coach and go to a counselor for all these issues you face. If you call around for different ones they can usually point you to someone that will work for you. It is just a suggestion and you obviously don't have to agree or do it. If you have any questions just ask.
     
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