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Both My Hand and My Eye Offend

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Legion92, Jun 14, 2018.

  1. Heyo Pretty standard story here, I suppose. Been dealing with this for several years, during which having never made it more than three days without pmo, and that only once. I'm finally in a good place in my life and have grown up a lot over those years, but I cannot be the man I'm supposed to with this anchoring me down. Hoping this will help me break away and move on.
     
  2. drac16

    drac16 Fapstronaut

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    We're happy to have you here. Reaching out to NoFap was a good decision to make. Our community can provide you with support than can help you out. You're not alone.
     
  3. lilac_sky

    lilac_sky Fapstronaut

    Welcome to the NoFap community! We're here for you!
     
  4. Thanks for the support all. It almost seems unreal. I knew there must have been some others dealing with the same thing I was, but I never dreamed it would be this extensive. I look forward to overcoming this with y'all.
     
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  5. Hi. Welcome to forum!

    Make sure you create a personal journal thread in Reboot Logs section and blog there on a regular basis. As well as just generally be active participant in various forum discussions. I recommend this to everybody new here because it's the major thing that helped me when I was first starting. Just lurking on forums, reading and learning is great. But it usually is so much more powerful to engage. It helps to keep us motivated and accountable when we are active part of community. And keeps this in front of our minds so we don't forget about importance of it and slip away in our old habits. Sharing is also therapeutic. This is a major reason why AA meetings work so good. But that was developed before internet era. These days we can get most of the same benefits online through communities like this. So don't underestimate the power of active participation.

    I would also like to suggest you to look into mindfulness meditation. It has helped me personally tremendously to learn how to deal with urges and triggers. It takes a while to get good at it and notice results, so you need to be consistent with it, but once you do it's very powerful. It has been used by sages for thousands of years to deal with various issues of the mind. And in recent decades the science is also catching up to what ancient sages have know for centuries. Meditation these days are widely used as very effective tool by psychologists for treating addiction and by neurologists for supporting recovery of the brain. It is a great exercise for the brain the same way as jogging is great exercise for the body. Check out this Ted talk, it gives a good idea of what's it about when it comes to philosophy. As far as practical side of it there is this awesome smartphone app called Headspace for guided meditations to get you started.

    Wish you lot's of strength and success in your reboot journey!
     
  6. Gervacio

    Gervacio Fapstronaut

    Bien venido.

    Ánimo escribe diario en tu hilo es maravilloso hacerlo, te mantendrá motivado y libre de lo que vas compartiendo.
     

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