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Being trully lonely

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by the phantom pain, Dec 22, 2015.

  1. the phantom pain

    the phantom pain Fapstronaut

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    ever tried to call your friends but no one is available, facebook them sand nothing comes back or whatsapp them. I feel porn has replaced my will to socialize and keep in contact with others its a real shame and disappointing to say the least I don't know weather I can fix this and where to start anyone else felt this?
     
  2. Srx177

    Srx177 New Fapstronaut

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    The problem is you may be to needy, you gotta be content with yourself and everything will fall into place keep your head up people will see this and wanna be around you.
     
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  3. Lesoldat

    Lesoldat Fapstronaut

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    Hey, i had a period when i was with many "friends" with whom i went out easily 3 times a week (they were not acting as real friends actually). Then i met a girl and i lost lot of these relationships. From getting more than 20 message/call/mail a day i went to none.
    I broke up with the girl which was really toxic for me as well (jealousy, everyday rollercoaster).. it took time and my confidence was destroyed but i actually met some new people and feel way better now.
    Where did i meet them ?
    -Work/studies,
    -Started a new activity/sport (probably the best way),

    As the time goes i learned to live alone, i mean there is really few people who will follow you that far. Really hard to find someone to believe in who will never judge you, don't show jealousy and try to lift you up in your life. So my point of view: Until you'll find these awesome people to share your life with, take some time to improve yourself in every area that count for you, take care of the family and other people you love.
     
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  4. xenomorphie

    xenomorphie Fapstronaut

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    the problem seems to be with the people you like to call 'friends' those associates who you claim as friends if they actually were your friends they would had recognised that you needed help instead of turning you away or ignoring you, i think porn isnt exactly the problem here you just need to find appropriate people.
     

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