Being rejected

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Amarion, Jun 12, 2018.

  1. Amarion

    Amarion Fapstronaut

    Hi guys

    Today I've been rejected by the one that I love... I'm lost, empty, unmotivated and broken... What's your best advices ? My inner voice keep telling me negative things. All is nonsense right now...
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  2. DeAndre85

    DeAndre85 Fapstronaut

    My advice you go read your books, prepare for exam and succeed in your school.
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  3. Rj1090

    Rj1090 Fapstronaut

    Bro,Keep focusing on things Which truly matter in your life......
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  4. Amarion

    Amarion Fapstronaut

    What if I crave to have a girlfriend ? Is it dangerous ? How can i stop this behaviour ? Should I focus more on my future ?
  5. Vandermeer

    Vandermeer Fapstronaut

    Congratulations for your bravery to dare a try.
    She is not the one then. In a way, you could feel relieved, because now you know and can move on. The pain of rejection and worthlessness you feel now is mostly your hurt ego, that´s a normal reaction, but will pass. (I cried so much first time I felt truly rejected, although I barely knew the girl, it was all about myself)
    As longer and stubborn you hold to that pain and dwell in it, as more time you waste to build up your future happiness. Looking back in a few years, she won´t mean much to you anymore. (I know that sounds hard to believe, but that´s your own stubborness only) Maybe you will even wonder, what made you so hard going after her at all, especially if you will be with someone, who is the right person for you. There are billions (!) of other single people in the world, don´t worry, if you truly want to find someone, you can.
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  6. tomsterling

    tomsterling New Fapstronaut

    Just move on, you don't have any choice. Sometimes it feels bad, sometimes its ok, just keep use to it. Take efforts on those things which you know you will easily get. Not on those things which give negative feelings. Go for success.
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  7. Nexi

    Nexi New Fapstronaut

    im sorry to hear that. I been in a similar boat a few times. I know it might not seem that way but odds are in a few weeks / months you will start feeling better. Its been 3 months since I had my heart broken and everyday is a tiny bit better.
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  8. Hopefulistic

    Hopefulistic Fapstronaut

    Buy some material on how to get a girl to like you.
  9. jukebbox

    jukebbox Fapstronaut

    The rejection itself kinda does not hurt me. My problem is being rejected by someone who i often see like some work mate or classmate. How should i deal with this type of rejection?
    Last edited: Jun 20, 2018 at 8:53 PM
  10. Bijuu107

    Bijuu107 Fapstronaut

    Have the same problem... . I didn't do it because i was so broken at that time(had fapped and was getting realy shy and my feelings were inhibited, was over half year ago) but I wish I would talk to her one more time and say yeah you did reject me but let be friends and I,m not even angry on you. I just tried and I don't wanted to hurt you or something like this (because they look with the eyes like, when you wanted to fuck her life up). Being honestly.

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