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BEGINNER'S QUESTION

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by angeliko, Feb 26, 2017.

  1. angeliko

    angeliko New Fapstronaut

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    Hi i'm new to all of this., i'm 20 and it's my 8th day without porn and masturbation. This is my first try and haven't had any relapse yet. Anyway I just wanna ask something that has been bothering me. In the outlined process of the psychotherapy this group is promoting, it is stated there that we (challengers/Fapstronauts) must restrain from doing porn,masturbation, and orgasm (PMO) by any means necessary, until we reach our target streak. So far, I had no problem with porn and masturbation. However, I'm confused whether or not I'm doing good on suppressing my orgasm. For the sake of having a parallel definition, orgasm means "any sexual excitement, characterized by feelings of pleasure centered in the genitals". And this is my problem. Since I started, I became more sexually sensitive from different urges around me, like hot girls I passed by on the streets and in school, unintentionally seeing tv ads and posters with pretty girls on them, songs in my car's radio that talks about sex, seeing people making out at school corridors, and even by just being naked at bed when sleeping at night (which I normally do)..always give me those horny feelings that make my penis semi-erect (never had a full erection since early Feb 2017). And based on the definition above, I'm clearly having an orgasm. Those horny feelings always accumulate in my penis. As much as possible I try to ignore those things and shake it off my head once the see and hear them, but not fast enough before I get hard. I'm just afraid I'm doing the wrong thing and this problem is delaying my progression. I guess I' m just being too paranoid and I can't seem to help myself. Maybe, I just want to know if other beginners also experience these sensations ,is it normal for us, and what to do to totally prevent having these semi-erections.
     
  2. simmering

    simmering Fapstronaut

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  3. angeliko

    angeliko New Fapstronaut

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    @simmering = If that's the case, then me having random partial erections during these scenarios is just natural? I mean, wouldn't it be considered not totally abstaining from any sexual stuff.
     
  4. simmering

    simmering Fapstronaut

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    there are sexy girls on the street, there are ads and posters... you can't change that. don't actively look for these things, wear something in bed and you'll be fine. it's normal to be horny sometimes. human nature, you know
     

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