It's basically how life has been and of course this journey is putting me in a new state of mind. Especially being single for awhile and an occasional girl comes into my life and I get the opportunity for that "roll in the hay". But of course i get new girl anxiety and can't get my unit up for the life of me ....and hers. I've only been able to get it up for two women in my past out of maybe five opportunities after. Although my brain was saying, "hell yes, go for it!" Im picking apart myself and the mental block to my love machine is taking the day off. Its making me feel like i was before everything, a virgin. I've viewed lots of porn in my past and had no problems with it. So it's definitely not from PIED or ED because i can get hard alone no problem. Just not when a women is ready to go all the way. Has anyone else suffered this and has anyone had any success getting the issue solved? I don't think it's just a nofap thing, but i could be wrong.