Asked her out today. Does this mean no?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by jipsikid, Jun 25, 2019.

  1. jipsikid

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    There is this girl I know from college that I really like we have known each other for a couple of semesters and we always text and talk almost every day. Today I texted her suggesting that we should hang out together sometime and she told me that she was busy with work and college and she has to study, she told me “ it maybe some other time” She recently got a new job and I know that her schedule is a bit tight right now. Should I give her the benefit of the doubt and give her another chance one we finish this semester or do you think she went all lebron James on me. I appreciate your help.

    Sorry for my English btw
     
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  2. Dag

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    Some people are busy.

    Give it a chance.

    And if she eventually says no, it's not the end of the world.
    You go for the next girl.
     
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  3. jipsikid

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    I’ll wait and see what she does
     
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  4. The Unfadeable

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    She aint interested. Props to you for having the balls to ask her out and props to her for being honest. Keep improving your game and better luck next time.
     
  5. Cool I Can Use Spaces

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    Good job in trying.

    She told you “No”. I’ve found that many women will tell you “No” in nice ways, which I’m fine with.

    My suggestion is tell her you understand and hope you two can get together someday because you think she’s a great person.

    Then don’t bring it up again. Ball is in her court.

    If she’s interested she’ll get back to you. You don’t want to come across as being pushy. If she doesn’t get back to you about it, still treat her nicely and don’t become angered about it.

    Keep meeting other women. Don’t fixated on one.
     
  6. Johnny13

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    Don't worry to much about it. Just wait and you'll find another chance to ask. Maybe you will know that she is not that busy with studying etc and ask then. Don't wait whole semester tho.
     
  7. NeverJOAgain

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    Unfortunately, it is clear that she is saying “no”, but trying to be nice about it. I am glad that you had the courage to do so. I hope the next time you ask someone out it will be more warmly received.
     
  8. jipsikid

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    We saw each other today, she said hi to me, we talked for a little bit and then we went on our way.

    Met someone else the other day, let’s see how it goes.
     
  9. badbanana

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    That's most likely a no. The ball is in her court if she wants to change her mind. Not much sense in pursuing it further.
     
  10. Oldscholl122

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    Well she said she is busy and also (which is very important) maybe later, that means there is a chance she would like to go out with you but as she said later.. You only have to find out if she really wants to. You probably wanna bang her, if shes not sexualy interested in you she would probably dont go out with you or if she is she would like you to chase her and play games, she would like to make you needy, desperate to aqualify her victory over you. Just try to be more sexual on chat, try to make her horny, fi she stops responding she is not interested. And that make things easy for you. Just dont be afraid and attack her with your sexuality if she doesnt wanna have you sexualy it will probably not work and she will only use you. Thats it. Save yourself from thia frustration. You cannot know whats goin on inside hee head, just make it more easy for you rather be rejected as a man than be used as needy cunt. :Ddd If you already feel love on her, fuck that dude, go out to the club and meet some women sleep with some, and get her out of your head. Its really bad if you love women more than she loves you. In 99% she will just be using you. If she is beautifull she will find better options. And cheat on you later.
     
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  11. MrMufasa

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    Always other chances... plant of fish in the sea. When you get stood up it kinda turn's you from a boy to a man.

    Also Bro could you check my latest thread I need some advice on what my next move should be. Thank you bru.
     
  12. MrMufasa

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    Damn
     
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  13. Oldscholl122

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    What? :D
     
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  14. White Death

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    Don't worry, she probably is legitimately busy. I'd also hate to be asked out while I'm busy with work and studying. She did say "maybe some other time" so try asking her out at a time she isn't busy like as you said, once you both finish this semester. Lebron James begone.
     
  15. Inkazak

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    Oh god. Dude this is horrible advice - most women do now want to be attacked with Sexuality. If they do-they will make it clear. If you start being too sexual with her you will just come across as a horny out of control child.
     
  16. L'empereur

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    She is not LeBron Jamesin' you, but rather she is James Harding you. She just want the free attention you are giving. Things are not happening like in the movies. If you are chatting everyday and she is not fucking you, she won't, especially when you made a move and she said maybe other time. No woman is busy (she is woman) to get fucked, she is just fucked by someone else, who doesn't chat her all the time. That how life works.
     
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  17. AlphaAlone

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    Move on. Try with another girl, to be honest I think she don't want to date you BUT maybe one day things could change if you are not totaly on the Friendzone.

    Get out the friendzone and either she will come back to you or either she will stay in her position.
     
  18. I'll only say this just to let you know that the consensus here is correct. The fact that she said "maybe" when discussing if you guys could try again another time suggests she's not even enthused about the idea.
     
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  19. RobbyGo36

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    Good man.
     
  20. Inkazak

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    Mods- seriously? This kind of shit attitude (women are meant to be fucked) is probably 80 percent of why guys are addicted to porn.
     

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