Asexual or gay?

I had a second episode of PIED, nothing. There could have been other factors. I am know taking "libido max" and it's not really working (haven't been in a sexual situation on it).

I've been curious if I was asexual, I find women attractive but can't get it up for them. I used to in the past, really easily(just by kissing). Can you become asexual or is it like being gay, you're born with it. Another possibility could be that I'm gay, which I highly doubt bc I've never had conflicting thoughts about men or have I ever had to repress thoughts on men. Plus I used to get it up easily with ladies.

Last night I was really attracted to my friends I was hanging out w, they are in sororities. Like.. I knew one of them and just meet the other one. She was so fine and she starting leaning on me and just so sexy, I think she was digging me too bc we kept making eye contact and smiling.

Anyways.... I admire women is what I'm trying to say, their bodies espically and just there smiles and way about them. I just can't it up with them lately. So Idk if I'm asexual or just extremely unlucky bc I'm 20 years old w this. I'm at least talking more easily and not nervous all the time

 

I'm taking libidio max bc I'm trying to hook up with everybody I've been connecting with lately. It would be literally so easy, if I could get it up of course.

 

It's porn induced erectile dysfunction, you should know this considering how long you've been on here.

 

I did a73 day streak and it didn't improve at all

 

Apparently for many guys you need a lot longer than that.

 

And some guys do a 90 day streak and don't improve. Everyone is different. But you have to stick with it until your brain is rewired. You're not asexual or gay---your dick isn't working b/c of porn consumption.

And I don't know what "libido max" is--guessing it's some OTC supplement. Stop taking that shit. It might be contributing to your erectile dysfunction.

 

You're not asexual or homosexual. You're simply dysfunctional. It's gonna take some time to get everything working again, so maybe instead of focusing on the ladies, you put that energy towards something else in the mean time? Maybe career, school, hobbies, traveling, volunteering, and etc.

So many options man.

 

Um bc if I ignore the ladies I'll be out of play. But no I am doing college rn so I'm working on career too

 

Keep doing that. Less likely to PMO.

 

News flash champ, you have PIED so you're already out of play.

 

And what do you think you're going to accomplish with a dick that doesn't work?

 

Oh yeah?

 

Yeah. If you want to willingly put yourself into a situation where you will be let down by your PIED then that is your choice. I just want to know if you're going to start a thread questioning your sexuality every time it happens.

 

I have full blown PIED, I'm not going to try and hook up with a chick because I know damn well what's going to happen. Why put yourself in a situation that you know with absolute certainty you'll fail?

 

Well then hire do you know when you get healed? Figure you keep trying until it works, to get more comfortable. Are you planning to not attempt to have sex ever again?

 

Like everyone else on this site I'll have sex again once my PIED is cured. If you want to keep humiliating yourself go ahead, I'd rather cure myself first.

 

Alright. Heard that

 

I was just seeing if asexual was a possibility when on nofap or I can just get roasted lmao

 

You're not asexual, your brain is fucked up from porn and masturbating. Quit the PMO and you'll recover. It's the same story for me.