Are there any experiences from couples here about Karezza (coitus reservatus) for PMO Hardmode ?

vrpro · Jul 9, 2017

According to https://www.nofap.com/rebooting/ , "Rebooters with partners can still do Hard Mode, but will want to get their partner’s on board with the idea of abstaining from sex or learning non-orgasmic sexual techniques. One such technique, karezza, has been successfully practiced by some members of the community."

I still do not understand how do you get the non-orgasmic feeling and pleasure when you do not encounter with sexual activities?

I've searched for this karezza, and according to Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coitus_reservatus sexual continence, is a form of sexual intercourse in which the penetrative partner does not attempt to ejaculate within the receptive partner, but instead attempts to remain at the plateau phase of intercourse for as long as possible avoiding the seminal emission.

My GF still may cumming out and I did not cumming out (said it as the Oneida method" (from the Oneida Society), then also known as "male continence", in which men refrained from ejaculation but women were encouraged to have contractive orgasms at will. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alice_Bunker_Stockham)

So, is it correct, if I have a GF, I want to do PMO, so that: as long as I do not watch P and do not M, but still have sex with my GF, AS LONG AS I did not cum out, then I still have my PMO correctly?Because I have read that in PMO, we are prohibited to do Edging.

Thank you nofap and the forum.

Ryszard Mazur · Oct 6, 2017

Hi there,

Pardon my humble opinion but ... I think PMO is an internet addiction and sex with your GF is a whole different story, it is not an addiction (unless you do it way to often and long and your lives deteriorate and you do not see the outside world for it) so ... I wanted to say, real sex is a form of love so ... karezza is great, it gives you so much sustained pleasure it is the best thing in this world, that said ... If you cum, and you will, cos there is only so long you can hold it, what .... 7 hrs, when you're twenty? I was able to ... so ... if you ejaculate, in my view, this does not count as a reset, a reset is when you watch porn, porn is the evil
Cheers,

vrpro · Oct 7, 2017

Ryszard Mazur said: ↑

Hi there,

Pardon my humble opinion but ... I think PMO is an internet addiction and sex with your GF is a whole different story, it is not an addiction (unless you do it way to often and long and your lives deteriorate and you do not see the outside world for it) so ... I wanted to say, real sex is a form of love so ... karezza is great, it gives you so much sustained pleasure it is the best thing in this world, that said ... If you cum, and you will, cos there is only so long you can hold it, what .... 7 hrs, when you're twenty? I was able to ... so ... if you ejaculate, in my view, this does not count as a reset, a reset is when you watch porn, porn is the evil
Cheers,
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thank you Ryszard Mazur for replying my thread.
Pardon me, I still did not understand the bold text part,
currently, I'm not doing sex with my GF anymore, but I still fail so many times, re-watching porn again.

Wish me luck so that I can release from PMO addiction at less 21 days from now.

Ryszard Mazur · Oct 7, 2017

haha ok. I simply mean, my fellow, that karezza or delayed ejaculation or sex without orgasm and without edging, it is a way to reignite old couples, as it does not deplete us of our life's energy but women love it as it provides prolonged pleasure which only grows with passing hours, you take breaks when you notice yourself approaching climax and allow yourself to cool and couples have sex a lot, flirt a lot, it is such a great technique and this, my man, is not porn so if you happen to blow your load, your streak is not broken as we only talk of PMO in the sense of watching porn alone, masturbating to it and cumming alone, if you with a partner, none of those count, your streak goes on

Ryszard Mazur · Oct 7, 2017

I wish you luck and feel you bro, remember .... it gets hard after 2 weeks, after 4-6 weeks ... you are probably cured and it gets easy, just make it six weeks and you gonna be fine ....

vrpro · Oct 7, 2017

Ryszard Mazur said: ↑

haha ok. I simply mean, my fellow, that karezza or delayed ejaculation or sex without orgasm and without edging, it is a way to reignite old couples, as it does not deplete us of our life's energy but women love it as it provides prolonged pleasure which only grows with passing hours, you take breaks when you notice yourself approaching climax and allow yourself to cool and couples have sex a lot, flirt a lot, it is such a great technique and this, my man, is not porn so if you happen to blow your load, your streak is not broken as we only talk of PMO in the sense of watching porn alone, masturbating to it and cumming alone, if you with a partner, none of those count, your streak goes on
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even if GF is handjobing or blowjobing me, as long as it has been did by my GF, then it's fine? and if I'm masturbating alone, then it will break my streak of PMO?

I think I will not able to "hold" my cum when I feel it, I must practice this karezza thing. Have you able to do karezza to your partner?

thank you for your explanation, concise and easy to be consumed.
First I'll try for next 21 days.

Ryszard Mazur · Oct 7, 2017

I think not necessarily your GF, needs to be a real partner ...

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