Are escorts bad?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Jrmz94, May 7, 2019.

  1. Jrmz94

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    What are your thoughts on escorts? I only used an escort once in Nevada but I will say I had an amazing experience .
     
  2. GaryMayor

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    Yes, they are.
     
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  3. Jrmz94

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    Why though?
     
  4. jarvyjarvison

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    If and when you're ever in a serious relationship/marriage, you're going to regret visiting a prostitute. It's going to get between you and your partner/wife. Visiting a prostitute is also a great way to catch a disease and condoms aren't 100% effective. Your genitals were designed for sexual intercourse with your wife and the creation of children in love, not empty sex with prostitutes.
     
  5. Dr. Mario

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    If we're all being honest, "escorts" are just prostitutes for people who are either still in denial about hiring a whore, or for people who want a legal fig leaf while they pay for sex.
    I'd say prostitution in general is sad for everyone involved. The man can't get a woman interested in him unless he just pays her exorbitant amounts of money. And then the woman is either so desperate that she has to sell her body, or so greedy that she freely chooses to. Of course, as a Christian, I'd also say that the moral law plainly states that it's no good.
     
  6. Ronila

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    Running is good, running in to collapsing building is bad. So is running good or bad?

    Escorts are escorts, not bad, not good just escorts, until you add context.
     
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  7. Infrasapiens

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    They are human beings too who probably did not have any other choice that to do that for a living. And no, I have never contacted one in any way.
     
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  8. jarvyjarvison

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    Both sides are being taken advantage of. The prostitute who needs the money and the lonely john who's willing to pay for companionship. The only one who wins is the pimp and he's basically sold his soul to the devil so he's a loser too.
     
  9. ClickClickBoom

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    Well if you're a shallow individual with only interested in a transaction based relationship then by all mean go for it, personally i see nothing positive about an escort/prostitute.
    All religious beliefs aside the more you go into this sort of gratification cycle the harder it will be to establish a healthy relationship later on because the thought of easy sex will always be possibility on your mind.
    Well this is just my opinion its your life you do what you will.

    Best wishes,
     
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  10. Habbapop

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    Arew you trying go live a sober life from PM, well yes it is bad. It is fake, there is nothing but a pysical exchange. Just like porn there is just one goal. Orgasm.
     
  11. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Jesus ate with prostitutes and tax collectors.
     
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  12. overclocked

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    They are bad for your wallet
     
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  13. Dr. Mario

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    Yes, but he never condoned what they were doing. In fact, He told them to repent and stop their prostitution. Just because a lung doctor eats with smokers doesn't mean he approves of their smoking.
     
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  14. GaryMayor

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    1. You pay for sexual pleasure instead of earning it in a commited relationship. Using escorts promotes laziness and instant gratification.
    2. It is humilinating, when you need to pay women to make her interested in you.
    3. It support peoples' tragedies, such as sexual harrasments, human trafficing and exploatation of the poorest. Even if this particular women like what she does it is still supporting the whole industry, which abuse innocent people.
    4. Your consumer choice hurt a prostitute. Her or his psyche is being devastated by profess.
    5. You admit that sex should be a tradeable product, being buy and sold. Not only you start to believe in disturbed picture of human sexuality but also you more likely objectify women or take part in over-sexualized culture.
    6. You teach yourself how to not be attached to one partner. You can hire different prostitute each day and it becomes more fascinating than using always only one girl. It can be hard to be fidel to your spouse after it.
    7. You focus on sexuality only, without emotional relationship.
     
  15. phillip_ron

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    i had 4 years experience with those ladies. Is a moment of my life where the desire was to go to those ladies. At that time i used to connect to a site called gnoccaforum, where people put a kind of rate or score of the experience. So i put many opinions
    about many episodes,
    so other users can have information about a lady: tall, young, old, skin color, performances, and price. I dont blame that moment of my life. I was looking for a solution, because i have a problem. I realized that the prostit. did not solved my problem. My problem is (was) P. P made me unable to have normal sex with a woman.
     
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  16. InnerFaith

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    analogy: is bringing new stack of heroin to a junkie is good for the junkie? or is it good for you?
    meaning, the circumstance itself is bad as it is, so partaking in this mechanism of self destruction of someone cannot be good.
     
  17. To me escorts are like rape, you basically forcing her into having sex with you by using money and unfair circumstances. Trust me they do not like that gig and thinking otherwise would be believing in fairy tales that the porn industrie tells you.
     
  18. SlapKing31

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    escort visits are good
     
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  19. InnerFaith

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    as someone who slept with escorts, sadly i agree.. regret never ends when i look back at it.
     
  20. Personulidad

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    What do you feel the day after the experience?

    Shame, happiness, regret?
     

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