Anyone ever experience DE and ED?

Hey toast. I've been experiencing the same stuff lately with my gf. Although I don't have any answers for you, just wanted to say I came to the site for the same reasons as you.

 

Yeah I'm in this boat - the DE thing has been an issue for as long as I can remember, always assumed it was just the way I was, but now not sure it's not just the PMO stuff.

ED is the main reason I am on here too, this is a more recent one and more worrying one from my view I guess. Keen to last the course and see if I can't get this stuff sorted!

Would be keen to here any accounts from people that have managed to get over this!

 

I am married and yet I would fap multiple times a day also. I started having DE long before ED, and the DE is the worst! I've been trying to overcome this addiction for 4 years, and I am not perfect and have relapses from time to time, but my erections are super powerful and hard now, and I cum right when I want to, and that is very strong as well.

 

For me porn has had the opposite effect. I've suffered from premature ejaculation for years. I was mostly into softcore, body part worshipping and edging. I usually stopped watching sexually stimulating pictures and videos before I would ejaculate. I could even bring myself to orgasm without using hands. I guess edging fucked up my brain through some sort of over-sensitizing.

 

Same for me: Only the DE part, thank god. But enough reason to stop stupid fapping!

 

I am here for the exact same reasons. The success stories are pretty badass. Good luck and keep us updated on your journey.

 

Hey buddy. DE and ED I think for most people would come from PMO. here's why.
1) you are used to seeing porn models, done up make up and special effects. Normal human beings don't turn you on.
2) You are used to your hand touching your penis. Sex doesn't feel as good as your hands.
3) Your penis is over used.

I would suggest that you complete your 90 day challenge and then see for yourself whether your DE or ED was PMO induced. Good luck, whatever you do, don't touch your penis.

 

I also suffer Ed from past 5years

 

I'm glad that there are ppl in same boat as me. It's going to be a very tough road ahead but hopefully it will be worth it. I'm suffering from ED at the moment and it's causing me severe mental anxiety. Any idea how long we have to abstain before we change??

 

Yes I have experienced both. ED is the worst in my opinion. Damn death grip. I almost have 6 days. I feel like my balls are filling up.. shit... getting a little antsy too. But stoked for the future I want what those guys who have a lot of time have: the ability to perform like a beast on call. I used to be like that. I will get there. Have a great days guys!

 

I've experienced something similar to ED with my girlfriend. When we're first start out doing foreplay and making out and stuff, I get rock hard. But when the sex slows down, I lose my erection and I have a hard (no pun intended) time getting it back up. Also, the erections just don't feel as good as they did when I didn't jerk off as much as I used to.