Anyone else get negative female attention?

How weird, why would it suddenly be negative

 

I think you just think tuat

 

I think the reason why we start noticing more attention after quitting masturbation is just becoming more aware of other people around us. You become more confident while on NoFap so you start looking around more and taking eye contact with others. Before your mind was focused on yourself and you were afraid of looking at others. But you shouldn't think of others looking at you being negative.

 

Sometimes happen people dont want to be attracted to some other specific person for any reason that dont really matter. They cant avoid it and they loath the feeling. I would do an experiment:
Try to engage in a chat, shallow stuff with one of these girls and see what happens. Would be interesting to know the result...

 

Well if you're like me and in a hell flatline, you're more worried about your mental state than physical. I've been slipping at the gym, I'm lucky if I comb my hair in the morning. I think we all go through that severe depression slob phase for a few weeks until we snap out of it.

 

Doesn't matter how long you do NoFap, girls will be disgusted if you don't take at least some pride in your appearance. What's your personal hygiene like? Do you smell, do you take some care in your appearance, clean, tidy? You don't have to be handsome, anyone can get themselves to at least average by taking some pride in looking clean and tidy. What's your body language like? Do you hunch and walk with head down, is your eye contact jumpy and creepy, do you fidget and creep people out by acting overly anxious?

More than half of our communication comes from our body language so what are you communicating with yours?

 

While this is all true and should be taken into account, we have to accept that this world is very superficial when it comes to the looks and personal appearance. If a person is, let's say, not the best looking guy, then nofap won't make him anymore desirable. All these success stories are from guys who were somewhat good looking and they got their body language and confidence into such a state that they got female attention.

Nevertheless, one should do nofap to improve him/herself, not to impress the others. Some of our greatest and most achieved people in the history of mankind have died as virgins, being single doesn't stop a person to achieve great things in life. Don't care about what other people think about you, it'll just exhaust your energy which you could use into better things.

 

Yeah, get out of seeking approval mode and into giving yourself approval, just by being alive you deserve everything you can get, but make sure you're setting high standards for yourself.

 

Get into the debate about how "shallow the society we live in"is... ls just a waste of time. To get the way of the virgin when you have lived your life yet is to run away. Let the energy of your balls invade each part of your body and soul and you will feel free about the way you wanna live. Have patience Mally, your age is hard but you can make it...

 

Well, I think its in your head.
Same like some people saying weird things about womens in positive ways, like thwy hit then up on a street for no reason ect.
its the way you think of yourself

Let me tell you something, there was a research once, you can google the name
Researcher sent few healthy persons to mental hospital. They were supposed to act in front of the stuff as if they were ill for specific mental problem.
After that they were supposed to act normally, as healthy people do.
Nobody did notice a change, nobody was like "Hey this guy started acting normally, why is he here? He is healthy"
Check this out, this was real research.
See how assumptions make people perceive others?