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Anybody else getting a lot more female action, even online??

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by CudMaverick., Jan 11, 2018.

  1. CudMaverick.

    CudMaverick. Fapstronaut

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    When i go out in public, specifically groceries stores etc. I get A LOT of looks and smiles. A few females actually come up to me to talk to me lol. But whats is CRAZY insane is the amount of activity im getting ONLINE. Multiple females are messaging me, sending me friend request etc. And this NEVER happened pre nofap. And i love it! But i want to know if this happens with anybody else? I really dont know how its possible theres no way for them to pick up pheromones over my phone lol.
     
  2. Me personally, I only count real life encounters and interactions as being indicators of progress. Anything that happens online via social media or messenger I take with a huge grain of salt.
     
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  3. CudMaverick.

    CudMaverick. Fapstronaut

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    I agree, i just think its odd this happens shortly after i quit PMO.
     
  4. Byris

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    I think this is in your head man, nothing like this has happened to me, not even in real life. Might be fun to believe in it but yeah, maybe you just weren't noticing the smiles before or something.
     
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  5. I'm not that surprised by it. I'm reminded of a quote that goes "when you are lonely, and feel like you don't have a friend in the world, just remember...people tend to avoid people who are like that"--Buster Guru. Basically I think the same goes for when you're deep into PMO. You just have a look that people naturally want to avoid; a lifeless zombie/sickly look. When you stop the PMO you look more alive and that's a naturally attractive quality.
     
  6. When you feel good about yourself, others notice and want in on it. You’re also more aware of your surroundings when you’re not in the pmo fog.
     
  7. Byris

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    Well, I can just point out my experience. I have had none of that.
    Also that quote, might be true but it's not a re-comforting one when you are a lonely person, basically saying you're fucked if you don't have friends, which I guess is true.
     
  8. Actually that's not what the quote is saying. It's basically saying you need to stop giving the outward appearance of a lonely mopey sourpuss since it's a look that naturally makes people want to avoid you, thus resulting in you not being able to make any new friends.
     
  9. Byris

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    yeah I guess so, sounds easier said than done though
     
  10. Anything healthy is easier said than done, lol
     
  11. Runtilmylegsdropoff

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    You might just happen to be a Chad. Nofap is not some magic chic magnet.
     
  12. Hitto

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    I wouldn't indulge too much from things on the internet well that's me I guess because when I was pmoing I use to sex chat all the time and send nudes it can be a slippery slope I'm trying to avoid tinder but my curiosity prevails sometimes and then I see this girl sending triggering messages to me I'm not writing it on here but yeah I'm trying to rewire my sexuality to women in real life so I'm trying to stay away from dating apps and such maybe until my body doesn't view it as porn but maybe I shouldn't go back at all lol but as pheromones over the phone I don't think that's the cause
     
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  13. Hitto

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    Yeah I notice that lol I really don't focus on looking for attractive girls but when we do meet eyes I see how they look at me especially now I just have this swagger in my walk and have my chest and shoulders back a lot more calm around women at the gym which wasn't the case before so I've seen a tremendous spike in my confidence I wanna stay off the apps sometimes it's hard but awareness is key I notice long drinking binges the after I turn to the apps or when I'm curious I think I'm missing out but my faith and reboot takes precedent over those things
     
  14. Hitto

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    Who is Chad my cousins name Chad lol I don't get it is Chad suppose to be like the stereotypical standard of beauty for males ?
     
  15. I was about to say, my cousin’s name is Chad too! Haha and he’s the opposite of a “Chad” xD
     
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  16. Hitto

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    But what Is a Chad ? Lol
     
  17. spylight

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    Its the new year. Females without boyfriends tend to be more proactive in approching men come the new year. Especially on dating apps. My buddy and Is accounts blew up on after new years.
     
  18. Byris

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    Guy who has it easy with women, a Chad is tall, good looking, makes a lot of money, is alpha, in good physical shape
     
  19. Hitto

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    Oh I figured all surface level things lol I try to be more concerned about being a beautiful person on the inside even though I have been told I'm handsome many times I don't let it go to my head my worth is based off all those things chad posses chad can be chad I'll be myself that's how I look at it
     
  20. In the state of Maryland, a Chad is known as a Chip.
     
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