Any tips for solving performance anxiety?

Can I ask how old you are and have you had this problem akways or is it more recent? Do you have ED when you MO? Do you take any meds like an anti depressant or high blood pressure med? Have you always done PMO just once a month or is this recent? Are you an addict in recovery? Do you MO without P if so how often?

 

Hey Hypee96.

I definitely feel your pain. I'm 21 and earlier this year I had porn-induced Ed with a girl who was really into me. Long story short I had my opportunity to fuck her on ther first night but my dick wouldn't let me. It was a huge blow to my self-esteem. Searching for answers I found this author who basically says you can manipulate your ed through hynosis. So basically everyday I would repeat phrases like:
MY penis is hard and strong
I have no problem getting an erection with a hot girl
Any girl is dying to have sex with me
When it comes to me getting hard for a girl I have no problem

You can honestly customize the affirmations you tell yourself depending on your past and current situations. When I used this method I had an open mind to it so that definitely made the technique more powerful in my mind. After about a week or so of doing it for 2-3 times a day the next time I met up with her I was erect for a blow job. Pretty soon maybe 2 weeks later I was so hard for her that I didn't have any problems keeping an erection with her. I also listened to this program by a hypnosis specialist from london. HE specialized it helping me overcome their Porn Ed by selling them an audio program that helps them recover from erectile dysfunction. I did it twice or three times around this same time and my dick was fine after lmao.
My erection lasted a good 10-15 minutes bro. I was amazed!I would suggest you try this out. Or if you need to take a penis stimulant right before you know your about to smash a girl. In my experience this will help program you to remain hard around a girl. Just don't make it a habit or your brain will reprogram to only get hard with added help. One time should be good enough.
Good luck fapstronaut.

 

I understand if you had ED once it creates anxiety but I think that much of what you are dealing with is related to PMO. A lot of guys fear PE and they use it as a reason to continue to PMO. I think overtime once you get into a long term relationship the PE will resolve itself. A lot of guys have that the first few times they have sex with a new partner and so we expect it you are nervous and excited. I will say that for a partner long term most women would prefer PE over DE I know I would!