anxious about penis size

That's mostly a guy thing. How many women have you heard making fun of a small dick(not that there aren't any) but it's just guy talk man. Don't take it too seriously.
It's not about how big it is, it's about how well you can use it when the time comes.
The point is, if you keep wondering if you're going to perform well on your first night, chances are you're not going to be successful at all. Just let it happen when the time comes. And it's going to be very fucking awkward the first time. But you'll look back and laugh at it.

 

I agree with the previous comment, it's about how you use it and as for not being able to get an erection, if you don't do PM then at your age you shouldn't have a problem but anxiety can also cause erection problems so try deal with the anxiety. Also are you sure it's actually small? if you've gotten the idea that most men have penises like porn stars then you're wrong. The average erect size bone pressed is approx 5.5" to 6.6".

 

I think it depends on what article you look at but some of them are done non-bone pressed so that's probably where you got your information from. The most recent one I looked at was 5.14" NBPEL and about 5.63" BPEL, the reason I said 5" to 6.6" is because the smallest avg I've heard of is 5" and the highest is 6.6". Either way, a lot of guys think they are small when in reality they aren't and it's all because of porn.

 

There is so many things that affect flaccid as well so you can do things to make it slightly bigger. Drinking water and avoiding smoking and caffeine can increase flaccid size. As you said though, it's irrelevant, by the time a girl get's a guys dick out he's usually already hard so it's all good

 

When having a sexual relationship with a girl (I stayed virgin till the age of 25), it is not only a dick size matter... It is about all what is before, complicity and love. So take your time, find the good person with whom you would like to build up stg and everything will be ok as you will feel confident with her!

 

Not everyone can be Dirk Digglar.

 

It is true that you cannot control the size of your dick, but what you can control is how your body looks.

 

If look at old greek statues, the statues of men has small flaccid penises, also in paintings from the reconnaissance era. No fucks given.

 

If you want it to look bigger, I'd go for the lean body look. I'm a powerlifter and was skinny when I started, I now have muscular quads and it makes my penis appear smaller. Seriously though, yeah some girls prefer a big dick but they aren't the type of girls you want to be with anyway. The type of girls you wanna be with won't care if they small because when they fall in love with a guy, they tend to fall in love with everything about them so I wouldn't worry about it, work on building confidence.

 

Ones that need big dicks are probably porn addicts themselves, doing PMO using big dildos and vibrators. They need to go on nofap too.

 

Exactly what I was thinking, it's like women won't wanna be with a guy who is a PMO addict, we don't really wanna be with a woman who has a big dick fantasy cause of PMO. Actually started hating porn since I started NoFap, it just corrupts your mind.

 

I think some of you guys are being just bitter about subject. Of course it is good to have a bigger dick, for you and a girl. It's like the height or any other aspect of body. I would love to be 7-8 cm taller to reach 190 cm milestone but I am still confident with my average height. Some short people that I know, who beat their complex of height, are very outgoing and active people. It doesn't feel like height is a problem for them. Maybe everybody has to do the same: get to acknowledge the limitations of your body and try to come to terms with it. Once you accomplish this, you won't have that much sorrow in your life. I do not want to come off like I don't have any concerns over my body. It's that everybody has and everybody settles down eventually. Why blame others for seeing ones imperfections for what they are?

 

If you're referring to some of my comments I'm not bitter about the subject. Just saying it how it is, yeah a bigger dick gives an advantage but I've spoken to decent girls and they've said some of the guys with smaller dicks were far better in bed than those with big dicks. I've no reason to be bitter about this subject cause I'm about 7.2" and I'm only 5' 4" short. My height is my imperfection but I don't let it control my life and don't feel any less of a man because of it. Pointless worrying about things you can't change to be honest.

 

The studies where the average was put as 6.5" were self reported studies. Basically worthless. A big scientific study where penis sizes were measured put the average around 5.2". From that study, 6.5" and bigger is actually pretty rare (less than 2.5%).

 

It's bad how porn makes us think the average is bigger than it actually is, that's reason enough to quit to be honest. Like I said on my previous post I'm 7.2" but even I feel that's small at times probably thanks to porn abuse.

 

Yeah its terrible and worse is that porn performers aren't actually as big as they say they are. 8" is more like 6". The illusion of larger size is created with camera angles, using petite girls, cosmetic surgery and sometimes prosthetics. True they are probably bigger than average but they aren't as big as they claim.