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Amazing attraction benefit received today!

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by DerNeuMann, Nov 10, 2017.

  1. DerNeuMann

    DerNeuMann Fapstronaut

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    Hey, fellow fighters! A few minutes ago I just had something happen for the first time in my entire adult life.

    I went into my usual hair cutting place. It's a place for men and has a sports theme with sporting events playing on screens. Normally, I don't go for the optional extra neck and scalp massage, etc. because I'm self-conscious about my thin, non-muscular build and my very average looks. Anyway, the 19-26-year old female hairstylists always gave me the absolute minimal and fastest shampoo and didn't seem much interested in massaging my shoulders, or even touching me, for that matter.

    I used to think that was because of the age difference, my non-muscular geeky appearance (compared to the athletic studs who go there), and the age difference. Now I realize that it was probably not any of those things. It was probably because I had the look of the habitual porn-soaked wanker that I was. God, I pray I never look like that again.

    Today, enjoying a 37-day streak, was a COMPLETELY different experience!

    O.M.G.

    Not only was I more positive and more talkative than usual, the hot 20-year old gave me a shampoo like I've never had except from my wife on a romantic trip. She took a long, slow time with the shampoo and the conditioner. Apparently, a lot of my dopamine receptors are rebooting because I felt exciting tingles up my spine. Wow! So, then she asked if I wanted the scalp massage and vibrating shoulder massage (which costs extra). Normally, when they ask me that, which they are required to do, you can hear in their voice that they are totally okay if I say no, so I usually do say no. But not today.

    The incredibly slow and almost erotic shampoo she gave me made me braver, and I wanted to test out the attraction benefit other nofappers have reported. I said, "I normally don't but why not?" There were two other guys in the shampoo room at the same time as me. My scalp massage went on waaaaay longer than what their stylists were giving them. She was literally and I think seductively (though I have so little experience with this) massaging my temples and rubbing my head literally in an erotic way. She kept using her fingers to touch some specific spots right at the base of my skull which were at the very edge of the hairline. Sparks were firing all over my body and eventually I got a semi. She would have easily noticed the bulge in my jeans if she were looking that direction (she was behind me and facing that way and I was stretched out with feet up on a footrest- it would have been easily apparent to anyone looking, including the other stylist next to her). In fact, as I reflect on it, maybe that's a trick she knows to get a bigger tip (it worked). When she was done, we went back to the barber chair and she asked if it would be okay if she put some moisturizer in my hair at no extra charge. Of course, I said yes. Then I got yet another slow massage on my scalp, hitting those same spots over and over. Usually, they just slap something in as fast as they can. Then came the vibrating shoulder rub. In my fappy past, that used to last exactly 60 seconds. Not today. 3 to 5 minutes!!!!! Needless to say, she got a great tip. She made eye contact with me multiple times, which I am a stranger to.

    But wait, there's more!! All of this happened when there was a long waiting line in the lobby!! She could have hurried with me and made more money but she didn't. In the end, it doesn't matter to me what her motivation was. Fact is, these things previously NEVER happened to me. I was completely skeptical about the so-called female attraction benefit before but now I am experiencing it.
    Yeah. There is nooo going back to being a filthy wanker. Hell, no.
     
    Last edited: Nov 11, 2017
  2. Amazing man! Honestly, for some reason I felt really happy after reading that experience of yours and that's just day 37...wow! :D
     
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  3. I know exactly what you mean. I used to have that too and I f*cking hate it. Never want to see that look on me again.

    What can I say... My hat's off to you Bro!!
     
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  4. DerNeuMann

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    I'm sensitive to the fact that the guys on here who never had the daily PM addiction I had are probably rolling their eyes. However, I've read quite a few success stories on here and watched some on YouTube where some guys managing to stay on streaks are reporting similar things. I've been happily married a long time and I am not looking for sex partners or dates. But it's nice to get some flattering but harmless female attention, especially if you've never really gotten it before. It's a new experience and quite exciting for us. Anyway, who else could I share this particular experience with except my brother fapstronauts?
     
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  5. Wow man. That is unbelievable. I'm on day 12, still a long way to go for me!
     
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  6. DerNeuMann

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    Only 2 days until the two week mark. Keep going!
     

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