Am I the only person that thinks porn is kind of boring?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Haddock0, Oct 13, 2018 at 10:00 PM.

  1. Haddock0

    Haddock0 Fapstronaut

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    If you think about it objectively, what exactly are you watching when you watch porn? Straight up sex , which in my opinion is like watching someone paint a wall, sure, it might be satisfying at first, but it gets plain boring after a while of watching the same stuff. You don't have anything to think about, it doesn't please your morals, and there's no change from video to video besides the actors/actresses. Sure you can keep it going with the fetishes, but once you get bored of the most depraved fetishes, you have nothing left to do. I have found this to happen with myself. I looked at some messed up stuff, and while I don't morally agree with any of it, I now have no desire to look at a lot of things for the sole reason of boredom. Now you can rest easy, noing porn is boring. ( Seriously though, back when I was still watching porn I tried really hard to find something with actual story-not incest or any of the bullshit plotlines- something where the sex had a reason other than for pleasure's sake, and I legit couldn't find anything- I also tried to find something morally good, which I couldn't find either, leading me to believe that porn is morally wrong in all situations)

    TLDR, porn is boring cause it's the same thing over and over.
     
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  2. scarecrow1

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    Beautiful women will never be boring for me.

    However if what you said is really true then you will have no problem putting together an awesome long abstinence streak.

    Respect is due when I see that
     
  3. nef

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    it happens when i was understanding the dark side of porn
     
  4. The Lone Ranger

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    Nope, don’t agree. Always exciting. I love P, P has been my best friend for years, I could marry P. Always something new to offer!

    Now I’ve found out that it is a phony friend, actually not giving me anything, on the contrary it’s sucking energy and health from my body and mind. What kind of friend is that? So P has got to go. Forever
     
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  5. slapdad jones

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    I have thought deeply about this over the course of the last many many years. I am still caught up no matter how many times I watch. I wish it were true, then as Scarecrow1 rightly says we should be able to put some time behind us with no problems. But it doesnt hold true for me. Its a problem and will remain a challenge for me. Women in general, how many times can you see variations on the same theme, it never gets tiring.
     
  6. Uncomfortably Numb

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    I'm not sure you can be addicted to something that is boring.
    It is actually the direct opposite of boring... as is true with the subject of any addiction.
     
  7. oneotwo

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    I use to play alot video game kike an addict one, now its boring me,and also doesnt fell urge..
    So? What happen?
     
  8. Haddock0

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    Well, I begun to practice thinking more rationally rather than emotionally based, like I used to, and I am realizing that in actuality, porn is a boring medium.
     
  9. shaza98

    shaza98 Fapstronaut

    Gotta agree with the majority here. At the end of the say, there is ALWAYS something I can look forward to when it comes to porn. It makes it especially worse when you're following that particular model who hasn't posted fully nude pictures yet but they always tease you with the deep cleavage shots and stuff. I've had many occasions where I would have an instant urge to "check up" on them and see if they've finally crossed over to the other side.

    I agree that if you don't find something new to watch and MO to it can get boring at that time... but then I would just go back to my favorite pic or video and finish off there. To me, porn is something that I will probably never get over, because it will always be enticing to me. But I know porn for what It really is, and I don't want to be associated with it it anymore.
     
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  10. Mr.Chips

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    You don't stop watching that material because it became boring, but because your mind wants something biggger, this material is not pleasuring anymore. But guess what ? This boring thing made you feel badly want to watch it at times. It ruined your whole day thinking about it. You couldn't focus on work or studies. It took your time. This boring thing.
     
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  11. Wario32

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    ^this 100% P is never boring thats the problem with it, especially if you go on long streaks, that stuff you though were boring will become extremely appealing again. Since your brain is recovering. For example I could fap to just a picture of naked girl right now with no problem but before in my dark PMO days, I would need some hardcore stuff to get me going.
     
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  12. HopeForBrightFuture

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    I spent time thinking about this question. It’s one of those irrational things with addiction and our attraction to women.

    Why do we want to keep watching one woman after the other doing repetitive motions whether they’re by themselves, with one other, or with a group? Even in hardcore material it’s repetitive actions. Non-penetration porn - repetitive actions.

    Stepping back and thinking about it logically it’s actually stupid. I’m sitting there watching people engaged in repetitive actions. Why don’t I get bored with it? Why don’t I get bored with seeing one naked woman after another?

    I don’t know! But I don’t get bored with it.

    I’m not stopping PMO because of boredom. I’m stopping because it’s destructive to me. I’ve been able to stay away since I’m growing more interested in other things. I don’t think I’ll ever get bored with seeing a naked woman, whether she’s performing a sexual act or just standing there.

    But I choose not to spend time looking at naked women because I’ve better things to do.
     
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  13. learning

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    Porn has become pretty boring for me, but my libido is declining dramatically the last few years due to my age. Also I have been depressed.
     
  14. Righthandman76

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    It becomes noticeably more boring after I finish. Then I just shut it down and berate myself.
     

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